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What a crazy weekend….
Friday night my husband and I were heading to a business event. We were on an expressway and saw a big accident up ahead. There were many ambulances, police cars and fire trucks on the scene and many more that kept coming. We needed to get over a lane. As we pulled into another lane, we got rear ended by a semi truck. We are fine. The car has $2,000 or so worth of damage. But in the whole picture it is not a big deal. Sure it will be a pain, yes our out of pocket costs will be high, and yes we need to claim it to our insurance. And yes we missed the event we were headed to. But we are alive and in one piece.
We had to wait on the scene for 2 hours as the police cleared the major accident. I watched many bodies being cut out from the cars in ditch and be put on stretchers. The freaky, eye opening part is that when the police woman was available for us, she apologized but explained it was a fatal accident.
So I sat there realizing that had we not stopped for gas or had our sitter gotten there earlier, we could have been in that ditch. Basically every little thing leads to the next. When we 1st got hit by the truck, my husband said, “had the sitter come on time, we might not be dealing with this.” The thing with life is you never know what is around the corner. You never know if the path you take, your timing, or your decisions lead you to something incredible, something life altering, or just simple everyday life.
Many years ago (probably 15 or so) I use to read books by an author Richard Bach. They were about this very thing - how every single decision and movement leads to the next, and how if you made a different choice (major or even minor) how that leads to who you are and where you are in life. One of his books actually showed alternate paths concurrently. It was really fascinating. Something to think about.
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Fast forward to Saturday…
I have not been on a bike since I was a kid. I actually broke my arm when I was a pre-teen. I cannot remember if that was the last time I was on a bike. For some reason I had been wondering if the expression “it is just like riding a bike” was true. Are there some things that once you learn them, you can do them forever, even if 25 years have gone by in between? Well my mother-in-law has a bike she never uses. So we got it from her house and pumped up the tires. The first try I was wobbly. I lacked confidence. I was nervous. But after a few more minutes I was cruising around my neighborhood. My twins were watching and said, “you did not even need training wheels.” I felt so alive and proud of myself. I think we often forget to be proud of ourselves. I was.
So next time you are unsure if you can do something, JUST TRY IT. I never would have known if I could do it if I did not try. And when you do it, pat yourself on the back. Be proud! You did it.
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So how does all of this relate to a photography and photoshop blog? Well you get to know me as a person and what is going through my head. But really there are so many lessons in all of this, about life and photography and photoshop.
If you do not take a photo in fear it will not be good, then you will never know how it would have been. If you do not try and try again, you will not get better. I plan to keep riding!
And from the first story, I witnessed how short life was for the cars in front of me in the accident. Take photos of your family and friends. Take photos to document events. Every photo does not need to be a portrait. Sometimes snapshots are the best photos of all. They do not need to be perfect. They just need to document LIFE. So live and capture your life and those lives you love.
Thanks for reading,
Jodi