Kipe - loaʻa iā ʻoe ka uku kīpē e kiʻi i nā kiʻi paʻi ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi?

Ua noʻonoʻo wau i kēia lā e pili ana i ka "uku kīpē." Ke paʻi kiʻi wau i kaʻu mau keiki hoʻohana pinepine wau i ka uku kīpē. Ua loaʻa iaʻu he mea hōʻeha ʻole - inā he kālā a i ʻole kahi ʻāpana o ke kanakē a i ʻole ma kekahi wahi aʻu e hoʻohiki ai e lawe iā lākou ... Ke hana nei (ʻo ka maʻamau maʻamau) ... A kōkua pū lākou i hiki ai iaʻu ke kiʻi i nā kiʻi nani. Kēia ala lākou manaʻo he mea "i loko o lākou no lākou."

Ma nā ʻōlelo a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma waho o kaʻu mau kaikamahine māhoe, hāʻawi pinepine wau iā ʻoukou āpau (e ʻōlelo, e koho balota, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe) - maikaʻi - malia paha he ʻoʻoleʻa loa ke kipe ʻana i kahi huaʻōlelo, akā hāʻawi wau i nā hōʻemi, nā code, nā makana, nā hoʻokūkū. A ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ke hana au. Loaʻa iaʻu nā manaʻo hou aʻe a me ka nui o ka launa pū ke loaʻa iaʻu kahi makana a i ʻole ke kaha kiʻi ʻana (ma ke ʻano he rula - e ʻike kākou i ka mea e hana ʻia me kēia pou no ka mea ʻaʻohe hāʻawi. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā pūnaewele ʻē aʻe aʻu e kipa aku ai ma ke ʻano like. Pono pinepine ka poʻe i kahi mea hoʻonāukiuki - ʻaʻole wale i nā keiki akā kekahi mau mākua kekahi.

No laila ua noʻonoʻo wau, e uku anei kekahi i kā lākou mau kumuhana? He aha kā lākou e hana ai i ke kīpē? Manaʻo ʻoe he hewa ke kīpē? Makemake wau e kau pū i kahi pou e pili ana i nā kīpē mai ka ʻikepili aʻu e ʻohiʻohi ai i kēia mau balota a me nā ʻōlelo. E ʻoluʻolu e hāmama, hoʻopono, a kolohe. ʻAʻole wau e manaʻo i kēlā me kēia e ʻano like me aʻu.

E ʻoluʻolu e koho i ka balota - a laila ma ka wahi o ka manaʻo - kākau i ke kumu e hāʻawi ʻole ai ʻoe i ka uku. A i ʻole inā ʻoe e hana, he aha ke ʻano o nā mea āu e hoʻohana ai no nā uku kīpē (ie. Nā kanakē, nā mea pāʻani, a pēlā aku.). Hoʻololi paha kāu mau kīpē i "ke kiʻi?" ʻO kahi laʻana, "E lawe wau iā ʻoe ʻauʻau inā e ʻae ʻoe iaʻu e kiʻi i kekahi mau kiʻi?" a i ʻole "Hiki iā mākou ke hana X inā hāʻawi ʻoe iaʻu i kekahi mau minuke e kiʻi i kekahi mau kiʻi?" 

E hana pū i kahi leka i ka mea āu e uku ai - keiki, ʻohana, hoaaloha, ʻelemakule, nā holoholona, ​​a pēlā aku. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kipe, he aha kāu e manaʻo ai he mau ala ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e kiʻi i kāu poʻe keiki a i ʻole nā ​​kumuhana ʻē aʻe e komo i ka kiʻi ʻana i kā lākou mau kiʻi inā lākou hoihoi ʻole? E māhele wau i nā hopena mai kēia ma kekahi pou i kekahi mau pule.

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Aia ma lalo kahi laʻana o kaʻu uku kīpē i kaʻu mau keiki a me kā lākou mau hoaaloha. Makemake lākou e komo i loko o nā ʻauʻau ʻauʻau a pāʻani i loko o ko mākou pahu wai ʻauʻau haku (i Pepeluali - ma waena o ka hoʻoilo). No laila ua ʻōlelo wau., "Sure, inā hiki iaʻu ke kiʻi i kekahi mau kiʻi ..." Manaʻo ʻoe he hewa kēlā? He ʻoliʻoli a leʻaleʻa paha? Ua hauʻoli nō nā mākua o nā keiki ʻē aʻe aʻu i hana ai - makemake lākou i nā kī pū. Akā maopopo iaʻu manaʻo paha kekahi e ʻae ʻoe i nā keiki i kamaliʻi. ʻAklelo a e heluhelu iaʻu i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai.