Nā ala 7 e kiʻi i ka manaʻo i kāu kiʻi paʻi kiʻi

He aha ka mea kaʻawale a kiʻi māmā mai kahi kūleʻa kupaianaha ka moʻolelo o ke kiʻi e hōʻike nei. Manaʻoʻiʻo wau i ka mea nui e kiʻi ʻia i ke kiʻi ka manaʻo. ʻO ka nui o ka naʻau i ke kī ʻana, ʻo ka nui o ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana i ko mākou ʻike, a ʻo ka nui o ka pili a mākou e ʻike ai. Inā hōʻike ke kiʻi i ka naʻau - inā he hauʻoli, pūʻiwa, kaumaha, hoʻowahāwahā - kūleʻa.

Akā pehea ʻoe e hopu ai i ka naʻau me ke kiʻi? ʻO ka mea mua, ʻike ʻoe i kahi manawa a laila haʻi i kahi moʻolelo. Noʻu, ʻo ke kiʻi paʻi kiʻi nā mea e pili ana i ke kiʻi ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ka neʻe, ka wikiwiki, a me ke ʻano.

1. ʻAʻohe "tī", e ʻoluʻolu.

ʻO nā ʻuhane, e ko lākou ʻano maoli, mai ukali i nā rula kūpaʻa ... .. pili wale lākou, ma muli o ka manaʻo o ke kanaka i kahi manawa i hāʻawi ʻia. He ʻano paʻakikī a paʻakikī hoʻi lākou o ke ʻano o ke kanaka, akā hiki ke maʻalahi ka hopu ʻana i ka naʻau ke ʻike ka poʻe ke kiʻi ʻia lākou.

ʻO nā kiʻi aʻu i ʻike pinepine ai iaʻu iho nā kiʻi i loko o kahi naʻau kekahi ma mua o ka paʻa wale ʻana o ka hauʻoli. Hoʻokahi mea kuhi hewa pinepine nā mea paʻi kiʻi i kā lākou ʻōlelo ʻana, "Smiiiiile!", A i ʻole "tī", a i ʻole nā ​​mea a lākou e ʻōlelo ai e koi aku i ka poʻe e hāʻawi i kekahi i kekahi mau manaʻo mau. ʻO ia paha ka mea hope loa aʻu e makemake ai. ʻOiai, hiki i kēia mau kī ke hana i nā hoʻomanaʻo nui ma hope, uhi pinepine ʻia ka naʻau me ka minoʻaka hoʻopunipuni a i kekahi manawa he helehelena lapuwale, malia paha he lima e uhi ana i ka waha a i ʻole nā ​​maka.

2. Hopu i ke ʻano o kāu kumuhana.

Inā ke keiki e paʻi kiʻi nei i kahi kūlana pension, a noho mālie, hopu i kēlā. Inā ke ō mai nei ke keiki i ka paia, hopu i kēlā. Inā ke nānā aku kāu keiki iā ʻoe, huhū a huhū ʻole, hopu i kēlā. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻokau i kāu mau kumuhana i kahi kūlana i kūpono i ke kiʻi kuʻuna - ke kali mau nei nā kiʻi e hana, e waiho wale iā lākou.

 3. Manaʻo i kahi "manawa".

Kupaianaha nā pana paʻi ʻole ʻia. ʻO kēlā mea maikaʻi! Ke hāʻule kāu kumuhana, e nānā i kahi manawa i manaʻo ʻole ʻia, a i ʻole nā ​​māwae, e ʻike pono e hopu iā ia. ʻO kēlā mau manawa nā mea nani loa, ʻoiaʻiʻo, naʻau, nā manawa.

4. Pana ma hope o ka "manawa".

ʻO kekahi o kaʻu mau punahele punahele a kaʻu mau keiki ʻo ia kaʻu i hopu pono ʻia mahope iho o ke kī a lākou e manaʻo nei. ʻO kēia ka manawa a lākou i hoʻokuʻu ai i kēlā hanu a lākou e paʻa nei, hoʻomaha i ka minoʻaka i hiki ke koi ʻia, a me ka manawa e hāʻule ai ko lākou kino i kahi kūlana kūlohelohe.

5. Nānā a paʻi kiʻi i nā manawa ma waena o nā poses.

Hiki iā mākou ke hāʻawi i kā mākou kumuhana i ke alakaʻi i ka lā holoʻokoʻa, akā aia kekahi mea kupaianaha e pili ana i kahi kūlohelohe ... a i kekahi manawa e loaʻa wale kēlā mau manawa i nā manawa "ma waena".

No laila ke kakali mau i ka neʻe hou, ma mua o ka hiki ʻana o kāu kumuhana i laila. E mālama i kāu pahu paʻi kiʻi i kou maka a hoʻomau e ʻimi i ka nani maoli.

6. Loaʻa iā ia nā "maka".

ʻO nā maka ka puka aniani i ko mākou ʻuhane. Inā pono e hoʻokaʻawale kekahi i kekahi ʻāpana o ke kino e hōʻike ākea i ka naʻau, ʻo nā maka ia. Kanaka a holoholona paha, ʻike mau nā maka i ka manaʻo o ke kumuhana. ʻO ka nānā nui i nā maka o ka ʻaeto a i ʻole ka mehana pumehana o nā mea o kāu holoholona Labrador, a i ʻole ka nui o nā hiʻohiʻona o kahi mea hulahula, ʻo nā maka ke kī o ka hopu ʻana i nā naʻau i ʻike ʻia e ke kumuhana. Hiki i kahi kuʻemaka i hāpai ʻia a i ʻole ka nānā ʻaoʻao ke ʻōlelo i kekahi manawa i ka hiki ʻole i nā huaʻōlelo he haneli. Makemake au i ke paʻi kiʻi ʻana i kaʻu mau keiki no ka mea he pūʻulu naʻau ia, ʻaʻole lākou i aʻo i ke ʻano o ka faking, a hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike maoli i ka “ʻoiaʻiʻo i ko lākou mau maka”.

7. E nānā i nā kikoʻī.

Ma ke ʻano he mea paʻi kiʻi, ʻoiaʻiʻo ua ʻike mākou i ka naʻau e lawe i nā maka a me ka maka. ʻO ia ke kānāwai. No laila uhaʻi ia! Hiki ke lawe ʻia i nā manaʻo e nā hiʻohiʻona ʻē aʻe. Mai hoʻowahāwahā i ka ʻōlelo, nā kulu o ka hou e kulu ana i lalo ke alo, nā ʻōuli i hana ʻia e nā lima a me nā wāwae, a i ʻole ke kūlana o kahi kuamoʻo.

Mai kāohi iā ʻoe iho ma ka hilinaʻi ʻana i ka naʻau hiki ke kiʻi wale i ka maka, ma kahi o, hoʻokolohua me kahi ʻano piha o nā ʻano manaʻo.

ʻO ka hōʻike maoli a me ka maoli o ka naʻau e hōʻike i ka ʻuhane o ke kanaka, e hopu ana i ka mea i loko o kahi kiʻi ke haʻi i kā lākou moʻolelo a ʻo ia ka pahuhopu o kēlā me kēia mea paʻi kiʻi. ʻAʻohe hōʻole ʻia, nani ka naʻau.

He mea paʻi kiʻi ʻo Julia Altork e noho ana ma Greenville, South Carolina me kāna kāne a me ʻekolu mau keiki. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike hou aʻe i kāna hana ma ke kipa ʻana iā www.juliaaltork.com.