Pehea e kiʻi ai i nā minoʻaka kūlohelohe i nā kiʻi a nā keiki (na Erin Bell)

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He mea kupaianaha ʻo Erin Bell he pēpē a me nā keiki paʻi kiʻi ma Connecticut. Hoʻohanohano wau i ka loaʻa ʻana iā ia ma aneʻi ma ka Blog MCP. I kēia lā ʻo ia kaʻu mea paʻi kiʻi kipa a e aʻo ana ʻo ia i "pehea e kiʻi ai i nā minoʻaka kūlohelohe i nā kiʻi o nā keiki." E ʻoluʻolu e waiho iā ia i kahi manaʻo ma ka hopena ma aneʻi no laila ʻike ʻo ia i kou aloha nui i kēia. Ua hāʻawi ʻo ia e hoʻi hou koke, no laila e hōʻike iā ia i kahi ALOHA.

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Pehea e loaʻa ai nā minoʻaka kūlohelohe

ʻAʻohe kumu kikoʻī no ka kiʻi ʻana i nā minoʻaka kūlohelohe - ʻokoʻa ia mai ke keiki a ke keiki a me nā makahiki a hiki i nā makahiki. Hoʻomaʻo pinepine wau i kēlā me kēia ʻano hana aʻu me kēlā me kēia keiki a hiki i ka wā e loaʻa ai iaʻu kahi minoʻaka kūlohelohe. Ke kūleʻa wau, ʻike pinepine wau i ka mea e hana i ke koena o ka manawa. E noʻonoʻo, eia wale nō kaʻu mau manaʻo- akā ʻike wau ke hana maikaʻi nei lākou me kaʻu mau mea kūʻai aku.

4-12 mahina

No nā pēpē, ʻike wau ua hauʻoli kekahi mau pēpē ma ko lākou ʻōpū a ʻo kekahi ma ko lākou kua. E noi i nā mākua i ka mea a lākou e makemake ai a hoʻāʻo e pili pū me kēlā me ka hiki iā ʻoe. ʻIke wau mai nā makahiki 4 a hiki i kahi o 8 mau mahina ke hana maikaʻi ʻole nei lākou me ka ʻole o ko lākou mau mākua i loko o ka lumi. Hoʻonoho wau i ka pēpē i kahi a laila hoʻomaka wau e kī i ke kamaʻilio ʻana. Hana wau i kahi hui o nā mele, ʻuhū a me ka ʻōlelo ʻana he kaikamahine uʻi a keiki kāne uʻi paha lākou, a kamaʻilio ʻelemakule wale nō. ʻAʻole hauʻoli kekahi mau kiko no nā pēpē a hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo no nā hola a ʻaʻole lākou e minoʻaka. Noho wau ma kahi o 3 mau minuke i kahi a inā ʻaʻole wau e kiʻi i nā minoʻaka, a laila lawe wau i kaʻu mau kiʻi koʻikoʻi, noʻonoʻo a neʻe mākou i nā wahi. ʻO nā wahi kaulana noʻu nā moena o nā mākua e ka mālamalama o ka puka aniani, nā hale hele ʻoiai wau e kī ana ma waho, e hemo ana i nā puka aniani a me nā kī ʻana mai waho. ʻO ka hopena e loaʻa pololei ia iā ʻoe- hoʻololi koke nā ʻano pēpē.

Maikaʻi ʻo Little B i ka minoʻaka ʻana no kona mau mākua no laila loaʻa iā mākou nā pana he nui e like me kēlā. Ua lawe au ma kahi o 50 i kēia ʻāpana o ka pana - 40 a ke nānā nei ʻo ia i kona mau mākua. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka lima kahi e nānā nei ʻoi aʻe a ʻoi paha iaʻu i kūpono iaʻu. Nui wau i ka maka maka, no laila e kī pinepine wau a hemo i nā mea āpau me ka ʻole o ka maka. ʻAʻole maikaʻi ke nānā maka ma aneʻi, akā makemake mau nā mākua i nā kiʻi e like me kēia.

Ma 5 mau mahina, hana maikaʻi ʻo ia wale nō. Ua loaʻa iaʻu nā minoʻaka pīhoihoi i ka wā o māua wale nō, a me nā minoʻaka ʻoi aku ka wā o kona mau mākua. Makemake au i ʻelua- no laila holo pono kahi hui ʻana. E hōʻoia e hoʻāʻo e kiʻi i nā ʻano manaʻo like ʻole- koʻikoʻi, moeʻuhane, giggly, ʻike, a pēlā aku.

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Inā ʻaʻole he mau kaikuaʻana ma kahi, ʻike wau he ʻokoʻa ka hopohopo hoʻokaʻawale o nā keiki ʻo 1-3 a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hana me nā mākua ma laila. I kekahi manawa kōkua ka makua i ka minoʻaka ʻana o ke keiki, ʻaʻole kekahi manawa. Makemake wau e hoʻāʻo i nā mea ʻelua. ʻO ka maʻa mau wau e hoʻomaka nā mākua ma hope oʻu a hīmeni lākou i nā mele punahele a kā lākou keiki. Hīmeni pū wau a lūlū i koʻu kino i hope a i mua e like me ka hulahula a paʻakikī ʻole i ka kiʻi ʻana i nā kiʻi ma mua. Hoʻopili wau i kekahi mau kiʻi ʻakaʻaka ke nānā nei lākou iā Māmā a me Pāpā inā ʻo ia wale nō kaʻu e loaʻa ai, a laila loaʻa iaʻu kekahi o nā mea aʻu e hoʻomaha iki ai mai ka paʻi ʻana a me ke mele ʻana, ke kali nei no ke keiki e nānā mai iaʻu. . Kiʻi wau i nā kiʻi ke hana lākou.

Kipaku mau wau i nā mākua inā ke holo maikaʻi nei, no ka mea ʻo wai ka mea ʻike - hiki ke hele maikaʻi. Nīnau mau wau inā hiki iaʻu ke loaʻa i ke aniani o ka wai hau- Hāʻawi wau iā lākou i ka wink a hāwanawana makemake wau e ʻike pehea e hana wale ai ke keiki. A laila hoʻomaka koke wau me kahi mele ʻē aʻe. ʻO nā mele i kēia makahiki koʻu ʻano nui. E akahele i nā mele e pili ana i ka nui o ka neʻe ʻana o ka lima. Inā hoʻomaka ke keiki e uē ke hele ka makua, haʻi koke wau iā lākou e hoʻi mai ma mua o ka hoʻoheheʻe ʻana o mākou i lalo.

Inā kānalua wale lākou, hiki iaʻu ke hoʻohuli pinepine iā lākou. Hulahula wau a paʻa i kaʻu pahu paʻi kiʻi i lalo iki no laila manaʻo ia e pāʻani wale ana mākou. Ua maikaʻi wau i ka loaʻa ʻana o kaʻu pahu paʻi kiʻi ma koʻu ʻāʻī a hopu koke a kia ʻana no ka pana aʻu e pono ai. (ʻO kēia kahi o ke kumu o ka pana ʻana ma ka mode AV. ʻO kaʻu kaila o ka pana ʻana he pāʻani a wikiwiki hoʻi.)

ʻO "J" iki kēia. Hana maikaʻi ʻo ia me kona makuahine ma laila i loaʻa iā mākou. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke koʻikoʻi i ka nui o nā ʻike hou i hauʻoli ai kēia hui makahiki. Me ia ua hāhā au a ʻōlelo aku, “Au… e noho ʻoe ma ke keʻehi. Koho i kahi ʻanuʻu. ʻO ka ʻaoʻao hea kāna e ʻohi ai…. Auē kēlā! ” A laila iho wau i lalo a hoʻoponopono i kaʻu mau hoʻonohonoho a hoʻomaka wau e ʻōlelo iā ia. “E nānā iā ia, e ke aliʻi wahine o nā ʻanuʻu- nānā i kona kiʻekiʻe i luna. Aia ʻo ia ʻo waaaay ma ka piko o nā ʻanuʻu. Heeeello Miss. J! ʻIke wau iā ʻoe, e ka Mōʻīwahine J- ka luna o nā ʻanuʻu! " Ke kani a Dorky a me ka lapuwale, akā ua hauʻoli ia a ua loaʻa iaʻu nā pana aʻu i makemake ai.

ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke haʻi iā ʻoe i nā manawa he nui aʻu i hana pū ai me nā mea paʻi kiʻi e noho wale ma laila a ʻōlelo, “J…. J… e nānā iaʻu… he aha kāu hana ?? Nānā iā ʻoe ... ”ʻIke nā kamaliʻi he luhi kēia. Makemake lākou i ke kamaʻilio hoihoi- nā mea hou. Pono ʻoe e hāʻawi iā lākou i mea e ʻakaʻaka ai inā ʻoe e minoʻaka iā lākou. Hoʻopiʻi i kā lākou pae makahiki- makemake nā kamaliʻi e hoʻāʻo i nā mea hou, kūʻokoʻa, kiʻekiʻe. Hele au i kēlā me kēia kau me ka maopopo maikaʻi o ka makahiki aʻu e paʻi kiʻi nei.

Ma hope o kekahi manawa ua ʻike wau makemake wau i kiʻi kiʻiona kiʻiona kiʻekiʻe ma ka noho lūlū keʻokeʻo ma ka lanai o mua. Kau mākou iā ia ma luna a makemake koke ʻo ia e iho i lalo. Ua hoʻāʻo mākou e hīmeni iā ​​ABC akā i kēia makahiki, maʻi kekahi mau keiki i nā mele maʻamau. Akā kū wau i laila a hana i kahi mele i hele, "Pōhaku pōhaku, pōhaku pōhaku, pōhaku pōhaku pōhaku ʻalā. "J" pōhaku pōhaku, "J" pōhaku pōhaku, she pōhaku pōhaku pōhaku pōhaku. " Manaʻo ʻole e hana i nā mea hilahila e hana ai i mua o kāu mau keiki ponoʻī i nā keiki a haʻi. Noho ʻo ia ma laila hapa ʻakaʻaka, hapalua huikau e aʻu, akā i ka hopena ua hoʻoholo wau he leʻaleʻa wau a loaʻa iaʻu ke kiʻi aʻu e makemake ai. E hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole holo pono nā mele maʻamau. Mai makaʻu i ka haku ʻana i nā mele lapuwale ke hele ʻoe.

E like me kaʻu i ʻike ai ua ʻike ʻoe, hana mau nā huʻa me kēia makahiki. Pākuʻi koʻu mau mākua i nā huʻa i kaʻu pahupaʻikiʻi - kākoʻo wau i kahi liʻiliʻi a holo pinepine ke keiki iaʻu. Ma loko o ke kani ʻana o ka huʻa pinepine wau e hoʻomaha a ʻōlelo, “J !!! Ehia mau huʻa āu i pop wale ai !? ” a i ʻole "Auwe kuʻu maikaʻi, ua ʻike anei ʻoe i kēlā !?" Māmā ka maʻalahi ʻana o ka ʻike maka i nā wā huʻa.

Nā makahiki 4 a piʻi

ʻO koʻu manaʻo ponoʻī me ka ʻōpio makahiki ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā minoʻaka kūlohelohe a me nā manawa he nui, e holo pono nā minoʻaka i kau ʻia. Me kēlā ʻōlelo, aia ka pīhoihoi, hōʻoluʻolu ʻole, minoʻaka hauʻoli ʻole, a me ka minoʻaka hauʻoli maoli i kau ʻia. E hele ana ʻoe i ka hope. Me kēia makahiki, noho kaʻawale mau mākou- ʻo wau wale nō a me ke kumuhana maʻamau- a he leʻaleʻa wale mākou. Ua hōʻike mai kēia kaikamahine liʻiliʻi iaʻu a puni kona lumi a haʻi mai iaʻu i nā mea a pau e pili ana i ke kula. ʻIke wau e ʻike i nā nīnau e like me "ʻO wai kou inoa hoaaloha maikaʻi loa?" "Makemake ʻoe i kou kumu a ʻaʻole paha?" "ʻO wai ka papa clown i kāu papa?" "ʻO wai ka mea leʻaleʻa - kou Mama a i ʻole Pāpā?" hana ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi loa no ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kahi pilina ma mua o "ʻEhia ou mau makahiki?" a "Aia ʻoe i ka papa hea?" Nīnau ʻia lākou i kēlā mau nīnau i nā manawa āpau - luhi lākou iā lākou i kēia manawa. Noho wau iā lākou ma kahi maikaʻi a hoʻomaka wale wau e kamaʻilio pū me lākou. Ke kamaʻilio mai lākou iaʻu e hoʻāʻo wau e ʻakaʻaka. ʻO ka maʻamau inā ʻaʻole lākou ke ʻano e nānā iaʻu ke kamaʻilio lākou pono wau e ʻōlelo, "E nānā iaʻu ke kamaʻilio ʻoe."

Hana wau i kekahi o kēlā kamaʻilio wahaheʻe a laila hana wau i kekahi mea. ʻO ka mea huna i ke kiʻi ʻana akā ʻoi aku nā minoʻaka kūlohelohe i kēia makahiki ke kiʻi koke nei iā lākou. Kuhi wau i ka moena a ʻōlelo aku, "Al flop down on your tummy and put your hands under your chin ..." Hana lākou ia a ʻōlelo wau, "Oh hemolele. Loaʻa iā ʻoe. Aloha ʻoe ... e nānā iaʻu… maikaʻi loa ... nani kēia. ” Kūleʻa koke wau. Makemake nā kaikamahine a me nā keikikāne i nā manaʻo maikaʻi he nui. Inā hoʻomaha wau a hoʻokani me kaʻu kāmera a laila e nānā i luna e kiʻi i ke kiʻi ʻo kā lākou minoʻaka he mea ʻoi aku ka ikaika e ʻakaʻaka wau. ʻO ka maʻalea ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kāu hoʻonohonoho ma mua o kāu noi ʻana iā lākou e moe i lalo a i ʻole ke kū nei lākou.

I kēia kiʻi ʻelua, ua hopu wau iā ia i kiaʻi ʻole. Ke nānā nei ʻo ia i nā mea ʻē aʻe (aia mākou i waho ma kahi loko i piha i ka lā ma ka hola 12 awakea akā ke hele nei wau no laila ... ahh!) A hele wau i hope iā ia ma kahi hiki ʻole iā ia ke ʻike iaʻu a ʻōlelo, "E," R ", Nānā iaʻu!" Huli ʻo ia a nānā a hāʻawi i kahi minoʻaka. ʻAʻole ʻo ka minoʻaka kūlohelohe loa ia, akā i nā manawa he nui ʻike wau ʻaʻole kūʻai pinepine ka ʻōhiʻa hihiu no nā keiki makua- ʻoluʻolu ʻole nā ​​minoʻaka quirky i nā mākua manaʻo wau ke ʻelemakule lākou.

ʻO kēia kaʻu mau hana no ka loaʻa ʻana o nā minoʻaka kūlohelohe. Nui aʻe nā mea i waho, ʻo kēia wale nō ka mea e hana iaʻu. ʻO ka ʻike pehea e hana pū ai me nā keiki a me ka ʻike e pili ana i nā pae ʻokoʻa a nā keiki e hele ai i nā makahiki he kōkua nui ia. ʻIke wau i kaʻu kiʻi paʻi 60% koʻu pili me ka mea kūʻai aku, 20% ka mea aʻu e hana ai i ka pahu paʻi kiʻi, a me 20% hana hoʻomaʻemaʻe. Mai makaʻu e hele i waho o kāu wahi hōʻoluʻolu, e lapuwale, a hana lapuwale iā ʻoe iho - a i mua hoʻi o nā mākua.