Pehea e kū ai i waho, e hopu i nā manaʻo, e hana i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo {Photography Wedding}

I kēia lā heluhelu i ka poʻe heluhelu MCP mai ʻO Teresa o Teresa Sweet Photography. Ke hāʻawi aku nei ʻo ia iā ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā manaʻo pehea ʻoe e kū ai ma ke ʻano he kiʻi paʻi kiʻi ma ka male ʻana. E wehewehe ana ʻo ia pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hopu pono i nā naʻau a me nā manaʻo i kāu mau kiʻi.

Nā kiʻi paʻi male: Ke kū nei mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a hopu i ka manaʻo

ʻO ka lilo ʻana i mea paʻi kiʻi ma mua o ke kūʻai wale ʻana i kahi kāmela nani a me ke kiʻi ʻana i nā kiʻi. Heck, hiki i kēlā me kēia mea ke hana i kēlā. Akā ʻo ka lilo ʻana i mea paʻi kiʻi male a kū i waho o nā mea ʻē aʻe e paʻi kiʻi ʻana i nā ʻaina male, kahi moʻolelo ʻē aʻe. Inā paha ʻoe i loea i ka male, ʻohana, hānau hānau ... .. hiki iā ʻoe ke waiho iā ʻoe iho i kēia kūlana. Aia he TON o nā mea paʻi kiʻi i kēlā me kēia mokuʻāina, hana ka nui i ka hana like me ʻoe. ʻO kekahi poʻe paʻi kiʻi wale i ka male male. Hoʻolālā kekahi mau mea paʻi kiʻi i hoʻokahi kahua akā kiʻi iki ʻia i nā mea āpau. ʻO kaʻu nīnau iā ʻoe ʻo kēia ... ..Pehea ʻoe e kū ai i waho o kēlā mau mea paʻi kiʻi ʻē aʻe? He aha kāu mea ʻokoʻa mai iā lākou?

ʻO ka pane mua e popo ai i ke poʻo o ka mea paʻi kiʻi ʻo ... ʻO wau ka mea makepono loa i koʻu wahi. E ʻānai i kēlā mea i kāu papa inoa. ʻO ka mea maikaʻi ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana ʻo ia wale nō. ʻO kahi mea e ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi inā ʻoe e hoʻomaka ana i kahi kahua a pono ʻoe e ʻike i ka ʻike. Akā inā ʻoe e ʻike kikoʻī i kāu hana a heck, ke paʻi kiʻi ʻana i kekahi mea no nā makahiki, ʻo ka mea i ʻike ʻia ma ke ʻano he "paʻi kiʻi liʻiliʻi" ka mea maikaʻi ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana. Nānā paha nā mea kūʻai aku i kāu hana, e like me ia, akā e haʻohaʻo ʻoe no ke aha ʻoe i ʻoi aku ai ka liʻiliʻi ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe i kou wahi a hala ʻoe iā ʻoe. He kūpono ʻole ia? E uku i kāu hana a me ka manawa e like me. ʻO kāu hana ka mea e ʻōlelo ana nona iho. ʻO kāu hana ka mea e hoʻokū iā ʻoe i waho o ke koena o nā mea paʻi kiʻi.

Pono ʻoe e ʻike i kāu kaila ... kāu "nānā" ponoʻī. Inā like kāu kiʻi paʻi kiʻi me ka mea paʻi kiʻi ma ke alanui a i ʻole ke keʻena kaulahao kūloko, e hele paha nā poʻe iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole ʻoe e hopu i kā lākou maka. Maikaʻi inā makemake iki ʻoe e ʻike i kāu kaila, ʻaʻohe mea e manaʻo ʻoe e ʻike ʻoiaʻiʻo i kāu mea e makemake ai e hana a hoʻokō paha. E ʻike wale ʻoe iā ia a ʻike ʻoe i kahi kiʻi o kāu kiʻi e WOW iā ʻoe ... e ʻike ʻoe. Ma hope o kou ʻike i ka mea āu e ʻimi nei, e hoʻomau ʻoe i kēlā i kou manaʻo a e ʻike pono e hoʻokō i kēlā ʻano, ʻoiai inā he mau kiʻi wale nō me kēlā me kēia male. ʻO ia kēlā mau kiʻi e kamaʻilio no ʻoe a me kāu ʻoihana. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua aneane hoʻokahi makahiki paha wau me ke paʻi kiʻi ʻana i nā ipo male a hiki i koʻu ʻike maoli ʻana i ka hiʻohiʻona aʻu e hele nei. Ua hauʻoli paha wau me nā kiʻi aʻu i paʻi mua ai? ʻAe. Akā ua nui ka hana, ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa a me ka noʻonoʻo noʻonoʻo a me ka hana ʻana e hoʻokō ai i kaʻu mea e makemake ai.

ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi ke haʻi iā ʻoe i ka mea e nānā ai akā e hāʻawi wau i koʻu mau manaʻo iā ʻoe. Ke nānā mau nei wau i nā hana a nā mea paʻi kiʻi ʻē aʻe: Local, National a me International. Nānā mākou āpau i ka hoʻoulu, ka ʻike a me ka hoʻopili ʻana. Ua ʻike wau i ka nui o nā mea paʻi kiʻi (a me nā mea kūʻai aku) e ʻimi nei i nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi "lifestyle" ʻoi aku. ʻO ka nānā "modern", no laila e ʻōlelo ai. ʻO ka poʻe i ko lākou kūlohelohe, ʻohana ma kahi pāka e pāʻani ana a e ʻimi ana ... a ʻoiaʻiʻo, e hoʻokō i kēia hiʻohiʻona, pono ʻoe e hoʻopili me nā ʻohana a i ʻole nā ​​kāne āu e paʻi kiʻi nei. No laila inā ʻoe e paʻi kiʻi ʻana i ke keʻena studio, ʻo ia ka manaʻo a me nā ʻano e hōʻike ai. ʻO ia ka mea e pono ai ʻoe e hōʻike i kāu mau kiʻi no ka mea ke mākaʻikaʻi nei kahi mea kūʻai aku ma o kāu pūnaewele a blog paha, inā hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohui me kekahi kiʻi a i ʻole nā ​​kiʻi āu e hōʻike nei iā lākou a ʻōlelo iā lākou iho "WOW! Makemake au i kēia no kaʻu male ʻana. ” A i ʻole "Loaʻa iaʻu i kēia nānā no kaʻu kiʻi ʻohana!"

E like me kaʻu i ʻōlelo ai ma mua, ʻo wau ka mea paʻi kiʻi male. E ʻōlelo wau ma kahi o 80% o kaʻu hana he Hoa a ʻo ke koena ma waena o nā ʻohana, nā keiki hānau, ʻōpala ka lole a me nā mea āpau e hāʻule ana ma waena. Me kēlā me kēia kau male a paʻi paha paʻi kiʻi wau, aia ma ka liʻiliʻi hoʻokahi kiʻi i hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo "WOW!" a ʻike ua hopu maoli wau i ka naʻau o ua mau kāne lā, ko lāua mau pilikino maoli a i kekahi manawa i hana ʻia. No ke kiʻi mua, he kaikamahine pēpē e kau ana i ka cocoon. He mea aloha kēia kiʻi i koʻu puʻuwai a manaʻo wau e mau ana ia. ʻAʻole ia he "Carrie Sandoval" a i ʻole "Anne Geddes", kiʻi akā ʻoiai wau e holomua nei me koʻu ʻike me kēia ʻano kiʻi, he mea kūikawā kēia. ʻO nā mākua o kēia pēpē ka wahine mua i hui ai me aʻu a hoʻopaʻa ʻia iaʻu ma ke ʻano he paʻi paʻi na lākou i ka wā i hoʻomaka ai wau i kaʻu ʻoihana ponoʻī. Hiki ke kiʻi i nā mea nui ʻelua i ko lākou ola (ko lākou lā male a me kā lākou hānau mua), he mea kupaianaha loa ia.

Aloha nui wau i kēlā me kēia kāne male. ʻAʻole wau e loaʻa i kahi "bridezilla" a lana ka manaʻo ʻaʻole wau e ʻike i hoʻokahi. I kekahi manawa, e kiʻi ʻoe i nā kāne e kāhea a leka uila mai iā ʻoe a hoʻopaʻa pono i kāu lawelawe mai ka ʻōpeʻapeʻa. Akā i koʻu manaʻo, makemake wau e launa pū me lākou i ke kino a ʻoi aku-nui aku, ALOHA inā hoʻopaʻa kēlā me kēia kāne i kahi kau hui me kāu mau lawelawe. No ke aha kāu e nīnau ai? Hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka manawa hou e ʻike ai i ka wahine, e ʻike i nā mea a lāua e aloha ai e hana pū, e kamaʻilio hou aʻe e pili ana i kā lāua male male ʻana a hana wale i kahi pilina maikaʻi me lākou. Eia nō naʻe, hiki nō kēia ke hana inā ʻaʻole lākou makemake i kahi kau hoʻopaʻa. E launa pū me lākou ma ke kelepona, ka leka uila, kāu blog, Facebook… i kekahi mea. Mai lilo i pest i ka papa, akā he mea weliweli ia i kā lākou lā male inā ʻoluʻolu maoli ʻoe me lākou a ʻike wau, makemake lākou e hoʻāʻo i nā mea hou inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻokolohua. I ke kiʻi paʻi male, pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo i nā mea hou. Nā poses hou, kukui hou (ʻoiai ke ʻimi nei i kahi ʻokoʻa i kahi wahi hoʻokipa āu i paʻi kiʻi ai i miliona mau manawa), e hoʻāʻo i nā kukui wikiō a i ʻole e kiʻi i kahi ipukukui no nā ʻano like ʻole i nā mea. Inā ʻaʻole holo mua ia, mai hoʻonāwaliwali. E hoʻāʻo e ʻike i ka mea i hewa a hoʻokolohua hou ma mua o kāu hanana aʻe. A i ʻole he ala ʻokoʻa paha ia e hoʻoponopono ai ʻoe. He mea hou a hou loa! ʻO kahi laʻana, kaʻu kiʻi aʻe. Nui nā mea paʻi kiʻi e hoʻomālū i ke kāne mare e honi iā ​​lākou. Hoʻokahi mau ia a ka mea kūʻai aku e aloha ai, he papa. Hana nō wau. Akā lawe i kahi notch. E honi ke kāne kāne i ko lākou ʻāʻī a i ʻole ma lalo pono o kēlā. Hana ia i kahi papa, akā pāʻani a ʻoi aku ke nānā aku iā ia. Me kēia kiʻi, e hoʻāʻo ana wau i kahi ala hou e hoʻoponopono ai a manaʻo wau ua hana maoli ia no kēia mea no ka mea i koʻu mau maka, ua hoʻohui ʻia i ka nānā aloha i hōʻike ʻia i ke kiʻi.

No ke kiʻi hope loa aʻu e hōʻike aku ai iā ʻoe, aia kahi moʻolelo ma hope o ia. Me kēia wahine mare, ua hoʻopaʻa lāua iaʻu a me kona kaikuahine i mea paʻi kiʻi paʻi no lāua. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka wahine hoʻopalau na kēia wahine i ka pūʻali koa o ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa. Minamina, ua hoʻololi ʻia e lawe ʻia ʻo ia ma mua o ka mea i manaʻo ʻia ai ka wā a lākou e neʻe ai i kā lākou lā, ua pālua ʻia wau no kēlā hopena pule a lākou i hoʻolālā ai. Ua hele mai ʻo ia iaʻu i kekahi manawa ma hope, e ʻōlelo ana ʻaʻole hauʻoli loa ʻo ia me kāna mau kiʻi male a makemake ʻo ia iaʻu e paʻi kiʻi iā Trash the Dress me kāna kāne a hoʻi mai ʻo ia i ka home. ʻO ka hoʻomaka o ke kau, ua hana mākou i kekahi mau kiʻi o lāua ʻelua a laila hana mālie i kekahi mau kiʻi o ke kaona, o kēia manawa ... a ʻo ka hopena, pau i ke kai no kekahi mau kiʻi paʻi nui. ʻO kēia mau mea no KA MEA aʻu e makemake ai e hana a me ka haʻi ʻana aku o kahi mea kūʻai aku, e like me ke ʻano o ke keiki i ka hale kūʻai momona! ʻOluʻolu kēia kiʻi e like me ke kiʻi paʻi kiʻi akā ua manaʻo wau he mea hou aku ia e pono ai a i koʻu hoʻāʻo ʻana i kēia hoʻoponopono, hana maoli ia iaʻu e hele “Ooooooooh!” No koʻu kaila, holo pono ia. Nui koʻu hauʻoli pū kekahi no ka mea ua lilo kēia wahine i hoa aloha naʻu i kēia manawa a ke manaʻo nei lākou i kā lākou keiki mua. Piliwai wau hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i koʻu hoihoi e pili ana i kēlā!

No laila ... e wahī ʻia ... ʻo ia ʻĀPAU e pili ana i ka kaila, ka manaʻo o kāu paʻi kiʻi ʻana a me ke kiʻi ʻana i kēlā mau manaʻo. I ke kiʻi paʻi male, e nānā mau i nā mea e hana nei a puni ʻoe. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā hoʻolālā āpau, stress a me nā hoʻopili āpau i hiki i kēlā lā. Aia ka waimaka a me ka uē o ka pīhoihoi. Aia iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i kēlā mau kiʻi no nā mea āpau e ʻike ai i nā makahiki e hiki mai ana no ka mea ʻaʻole wale ʻoe e hana nei i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo, ke hana nei ʻoe i nā manaʻo hou aʻe ma o kāu mau kiʻi paʻi.