ʻO nā male pana pana ʻelua: ma hope o ʻelua mau aniani ʻokoʻa

Inā ʻoe he mea paʻi kiʻi i ka male male e noʻonoʻo nei i ka hoʻolimalima ʻana i kahi mea pana ʻelua a i ʻole inā ʻoe e ʻimi ana e uhaʻi i ka ʻoihana o ka male a makemake ʻoe e kī ʻelua, hele mai e aʻo i ka mea e hana ana ma hope o kēlā me kēia aniani. E haʻi aku ʻo Kristen i kāna hoʻolimalima ʻana i ka mea pana ʻelua no kāna ʻoihana paʻi kiʻi male a aʻo iā ʻoe pehea e holo ai. E hōʻike ʻo Reema i kāna mau ʻike ma ke ʻano he pana ʻelua. Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo nui mai kā lākou pilina hana nui.

Kristen's Lens (ka ʻoihana ʻona):

ʻAʻole wau i noʻonoʻo nui e pili ana i ka lawe ʻana i kahi mea pana ʻelua ke hele wau i ka hana lohi o ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kaʻu ʻoihana. ʻO 2008 ia a ke kīleʻa wale nei wau i kekahi mau male ma ka ʻaoʻao o kaʻu "hana lā" ke loaʻa iaʻu kahi leka uila mai kahi haumāna o ke koleke ʻōpio e nānā ana e kōkua i kahi ʻoihana paʻi kiʻi i nā hopena pule. Ma hope o ka hui ʻana me Reema, ʻaʻole wau i maopopo he nui kaʻu e hoʻopau ai i ke aʻo ʻana iā ia, ma kahi o, ua noi wau inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e noʻonoʻo e lilo i ʻāpana o kaʻu hui a hiki iā mākou ke aʻo pū. Ua pīhoihoi wau i kāna hana mai ka mea aʻu i ʻike ai ma ka pūnaewele, a mahalo nui hoʻi i kāna ʻano kanaka. ʻIke wau e hana ʻo ia i kahi hoʻokūkū maikaʻi no kaʻu ʻoihana, koʻu ʻano a me kaʻu hana.

I kēia manawa ua puka ʻo Reema mai ke koleke a ua hele aku i Thailand no ke kauwela, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke manaʻoʻiʻo i ka hopohopo e pili ana i ka lawe ʻana i kahi mea pana ʻelua e pani i kāna kūlana. Ua ʻike wau i ka nui o koʻu ulu ʻana i kahi ʻōnaehana me ia, i ka nui o ke aloha o kaʻu mea kūʻai aku iā ia a me ka pupule loa i koʻu manaʻo i ka male mua me ka ʻole o ia. Ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa nei mākou i kaʻu mea pana ʻelua hou mai Nowemapa, a ua hauʻoli wau i ka lawe ʻana iā Alyssa ma ke ʻano he kōkua (kokoke) manawa piha a me ka mea paʻi kiʻi ʻelua. Akā ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo he nui nā kūpina e lanakila i ka naʻau!

Ua ʻike wau i koʻu hilinaʻi nui ʻana iā Reema i ka wā o ka male ʻana - ʻaʻole ʻo ia wale nō ka mea pana ʻelua, ua lilo ʻo ia i mea hoʻonui iaʻu. Ua hana mākou iā mākou iho i kahi ʻōnaehana seamless, ʻaʻole pono mākou e kamaʻilio pū kekahi i kekahi e ʻike i ka mea e pono ai mākou e hana. Ua hoʻomohala mākou i kahi ʻōnaehana o nā ʻoniʻoni lima e kamaʻilio ai, me kaʻu mau hiʻohiʻona hiʻohiʻona maʻamau, a ua loaʻa iā ia ka hopu i kaʻu kaila ponoʻī a me kaʻu mau hana, ua maʻalahi ʻo ia me he mea lā ʻaʻole pono mākou e noʻonoʻo e pili ana. Ua lilo kona kaila i mea mahalo piha naʻu ponoʻī, a i ka hāʻule ʻana o 2010 (ke hoʻololi maoli kaʻu ʻoihana hana piha i kahi ʻano lōʻihi), hiki ʻole iā mākou ke haʻi i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o kā mākou hana.

ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi mea pana ʻelua mau i ʻae i kaʻu ʻoihana e ulu a hoʻonui no ka mea aia kahi waiwai nui i kau ʻia ma ka “mea paʻi kiʻi ʻelua”. Aia kahi paʻa a me ka palekana no kaʻu mea kūʻai aku. Hoʻomaopopo lākou i kaʻu pana ʻelua a lilo mākou āpau i ʻohana. E like me ke kūʻai aku ʻana i koʻu inoa ponoʻī a me ka waiwai o ia wahi, hiki iaʻu ke hana like me kaʻu mea pana ʻelua. Hele pū ʻo ia me aʻu, hana pū me aʻu, nā leka uila a me nā kelepona - ʻo ia ka hoa aloha Facebook iā ia! ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi mea pana ʻē aʻe ʻelua i kēlā me kēia male ʻaʻole loa e hāʻawi iaʻu kēlā ʻano pilina i kaʻu ʻoihana.

I ka wā e pili ana i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pana pua kūpaʻa ʻelua e kōkua maoli i ka ʻoki ʻana i ka manawa hoʻoponopono hope loa. Kamaʻāina nō wau me ke ʻano o kona kī ʻana (a me verise versa) hiki iā mākou ke kiʻi i nā manawa like ʻole mai nā wahi ʻokoʻa. Ua hoʻohana wau i ka manawa e hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ia ma nā hoʻonohonoho ʻenehana, ʻike wau i ke ʻano kikoʻī e hiki iaʻu ke kali iā ia i kēlā me kēia manawa, a me nā kūlana i hāʻawi ʻia. ʻAʻohe mea pūʻiwa a hilinaʻi wau iā ia a pau loa e kiʻi i nā ʻano kukui ʻoi loa o ka mālamalama ma lalo o ka kaohi.

Pana ʻo ia no ka mea aloha ʻo ia i ka hui a mākou e kūkulu pū nei - ʻaʻole no kāna mau pono ponoʻī. Ke noho nei mākou i kahi male, hiki iā ia ke nānā maʻalahi iaʻu e hoʻomaopopo pono i ka mea a me pehea wau e kī ʻana - ʻo nā aniani aʻu e hoʻohana nei a me nā kihi hea aʻu e makemake ai. Hoʻololi koke ʻo ia e hāʻawi i kahi manaʻo ʻokoʻa ʻē aʻe - a ʻaʻole pono wau e lawe i kahi manawa e aʻo a noi ai paha.

ʻAʻole wau i hopohopo e pili ana i ka hakakā o ka hoihoi mai kaʻu mau pana pua ʻelua no ka mea he ʻāpana lākou o kaʻu ʻoihana. Hoʻokomo pilikino ʻia lākou i ka mea a mākou e hana pū nei, a ua like ia me koʻu ʻohana. Kākoʻo lākou iaʻu i nā ʻano āpau a ʻo wau kekahi o nā kaikamahine nui i loaʻa iaʻu ka leʻaleʻa o ka hana pū ʻana. Ke hoʻi mai ʻo Reema mai kāna huakaʻi ʻana i Thailand, e hoʻi ʻo ia i ka noho no kekahi mau pule e kōkua ana me kekahi o kā mākou male hope o ke kauwela, a laila ua hoʻi ʻo ia i kāna huakaʻi hou i waho. Ua lawe ʻo Alyssa i ka naʻau, a he mau kāmaʻa nui kāna e hoʻopiha ai, akā ʻike wau ua mākaukau ʻo ia no ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ikaika a Reema i hāʻawi ai iā ia ma mua o kona haʻalele.

ʻO Reensens Lens (ka mea pana ʻelua):

Ma hope o ka hana pū ʻana me Kristen no kahi o ʻekolu mau makahiki, hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i hea wau inā ʻaʻole wau i hoʻomaka i ke kī pū ʻana me ia. He mea kupaianaha kēia, akā ma waho o ka ʻo kaʻu hana me kāna lima hoʻokahi i kōkua iaʻu e hele i loko o ke koleke, he manawa kūpono ia e aʻo nui ai e pili ana iaʻu iho, nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a ʻoiai, he manawa kūpono e hoʻomohala i kaʻu mākau kiʻi ma kahi ala aʻu i manaʻo ʻole ai he hiki.

ʻO ka pana ʻana ʻelua kahi manawa kūpono loa no nā mea paʻi kiʻi ma waho e makemake e loaʻa ka ʻike, akā no nā kumu āpau ʻaʻole i ke kūlana e hoʻomaka i kā lākou ʻoihana ponoʻī. Ua hoʻomaka wau e kī me Kristen i koʻu mau makahiki he 19, a ʻaʻohe ala e hiki ai iaʻu ke hoʻomaka i kahi ʻoihana i kēlā manawa, eia nō naʻe hiki iaʻu ke hoʻohana i kēlā manawa e aʻo i ka hiki. Ma kahi lōʻihi, ʻo kekahi o nā mea maikaʻi loa, ʻoluʻolu hoʻi e pili ana i ke kī ʻana o ka lua, ʻo ka nui o ka kaomi. Mai kuhi hewa, ua koʻikoʻi wau a koʻikoʻi hoʻi ma luna o ka noʻonoʻo o ka nalo ʻana i kahi kī kī ma ka male ʻana, akā ke iho mai ia, ʻaʻole ʻoe ka mea pana mua a he wahi no ka hewa kāu. ʻO ka mea nui aʻe ma mua o ka lumi no ka hemahema wale nō, he lumi nō kāu e hana ai, kahi aʻu e manaʻo ai kekahi o nā ʻāpana maikaʻi loa o kaʻu hana. ʻOiai ke kiʻi nei ʻo Kristen i nā pana pono pono, aia wau e peʻe ana e like me ka mea kolo ma hope o kahi lāʻau e kiʻi ana i nā pū pololei ma nā lau. Hiki iā wau ke hoʻokolohua me nā ʻaoʻao ʻokoʻa a me nā kukui i kahi ala i hiki ʻole i ka mea pana mua ke hele pinepine. No nā mea kūʻai aku hana maikaʻi ia no ka mea he ʻano nui kā lākou o nā kiʻi, a no mākou e hana pū kekahi no ka mea hana mākou ʻelua i nā ʻano ʻokoʻa o ka lā e mālama nei i nā mea āpau a me ka hou.

ʻAʻole wau e koi aku i kekahi e noʻonoʻo e hoʻomaka i kahi ʻoihana mare me ka lua ʻole o ka pana ʻana. ʻAʻoheʻoiaʻiʻo wale nō ala e ʻike ai i kāu mea e komo nei i kahi ʻano ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kahi ʻoihana kiʻi paʻi kiʻi kahi hana paʻa nui a ʻaʻohe ala maikaʻi e hoʻoholo ai inā ʻo ia ke ala kūpono āu e makemake ai e hele ma mua o ke kī ʻana ʻelua. Ma mua o ka hana ʻana i kaʻu male mua, ua ʻōlelo mai ʻo Kristen iaʻu, "E aloha paha ʻoe iā ia a i ʻole e inaina iā ia." ʻOiai ʻo ka manaʻo o ka ʻeleʻele a keʻokeʻo o ka makaʻu iaʻu i kēlā manawa, ua ʻike wau he ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia ʻōlelo. Ma muli o koʻu ʻike, hoʻomohala wau i nā mea i manaʻo nui ʻia no ka ʻoihana male, ka mea aʻu i loaʻa ʻole ma mua o ka pana ʻelua. ʻAʻole hōʻike ka hapa nui o nā hōʻike male ma WE wale i kahi kiʻi kūpono, a hiki i ka wā o ka male, ke sweating nei me nā ʻāpana he ʻumikūmāhiku i hoʻopaʻa ʻia iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo pehea ke ʻano.

Ua hoʻomaka wau i ka lua o ka pana no ka mea makemake wau i ke kiʻi paʻi, no ka mea makemake wau e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma ia mea a no ka mea ʻaʻole wau makemake e paʻa i kahi hana a koʻu puʻuwai. ua lilo ia i mea nui iaʻu. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i nā mea kūʻai aku, ke ʻike a mālama nei nā mea kūʻai aku iā ʻoe a makemake maoli e kaomi iā ʻoe iho no ka hauʻoli ʻana i kēia mau mea kūʻai aku he ʻāpana ia o ka hana aʻu i manaʻo ʻole ai. ʻO ke aloha i nā moʻolelo āpau o ka hui ʻana o kahi mau, hui a hoʻopau i ka hoʻolimalima ʻana iā mākou ʻo ia ka pūʻiwa kupaianaha loa. Ua nui wau i ka hilahila i ka uha ʻana ma nā male he nui, a ʻakaʻaka e like me kaʻu i ʻakaʻaka ʻole ai ma mua no ka mea e pono kaʻoiaʻiʻo, nā mea pupule maoli i nā male. ʻO ka poʻe ʻike ʻole iā ʻoe e ʻōlelo lākou i nā mea lapuwale a i kekahi manawa kūpono ʻole iā ʻoe. E kiʻi ʻino ʻoe i nā tona o ka confetti i ka ʻaina ahiahi a kou haku. E hoʻāʻo ka malihini e hoʻāʻo iā ʻoe. Pau ʻole nā ​​mea hiki. ʻO kēia mau mea lapuwale a pau, he mea ʻole hoʻi ia e hoʻoleʻaleʻa a hoʻomanaʻo ʻia ai nā male ʻana. ʻO ka ʻāpana maikaʻi loa o kēlā me kēia male me ke kānalua ʻole ka hoʻokele home i ka wā a Kristen a hana wau i miliona mau mea leʻaleʻa i nā mea ʻē aʻe āpau, e kau iā Glee ma ka piko o ko mākou māmā a ʻakaʻaka e pili ana i nā mea āpau i hana ʻia ma ka male male, no ka mea ke hiki mai. i lalo, leʻaleʻa ka male ʻana. He manawa kūpono ʻole lākou e lilo i ʻāpana o kahi manawa pilikino i ke ola o haʻi ʻē aʻe i ke ala e ʻae ʻole ai nā hana ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe. Laki loa wau i ka hui ʻana me nā poʻe āpau aʻu i laki ai e hele i ke ala me ka hopena o kaʻu ʻoihana pana ʻelua, a ua ʻike wau i nā makahiki ʻekolu o koʻu ola i poina ʻole loa.

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