4 Txoj Kev Yooj Yim rau Koj Mus Nqa Cov Duab Ntuj Tsev Neeg

Lub sijhawm ntawd yog xyoo tshiab uas tsev neeg xav tau lawv tsev neeg cov duab thaij. Cov tsev neeg feem ntau xav tau daim duab tsoos, tab sis feem ntau kuj xav tau cov duab ntuj uas hais lus ntau dua rau lawv.

Peb muaj tsev neeg daim duab uas yog qhov qub heev - txhua tus hnav ris tsho zoo li lawv qhov tsis zoo yog “duab sab nraud”. Kuv yog cov hluas uas kuv zaum ntawm kuv niam ceg tawv. Txhua tus neeg nyob ib ncig ntawm kuv luag ntxhi lawv toothy grin tshwj tsis yog kuv - Kuv tau tsa kuv txhais tes ntawm lub nrig thiab kuv tau quaj ntawm lub koob yees duab. Thiab kwv yees yog dab tsi? Tus ntawd yog daim duab uas peb tau dai ua ke - tsis yog qhov txhav, tsoos duab ib txwm coj tau tib hnub ntawd. Nws lom zem, npaj txhij, thiab tiag, thiab nws hnov ​​tus kheej ntau dua.

Nov yog qee cov lus qhia thiab kev qhia kom ntes tau cov duab hauv tsev neeg uas koj cov neeg yuav nyiam thiab nyiam rau ntau xyoo dhau los.

Thawj kauj ruam kom tau txais cov duab hauv tsev neeg yog kom paub txog tsev neeg, uas coj kuv mus…

1. Kawm kom paub tsev neeg… Cov lus nug.

Cov tib neeg nyiam ua cov neeg nyiam thiab so nyob ib puag ncig cov uas lawv paub. Txawm tias nws yuav tsis yog qhov tseeb los ua phooj ywg zoo tshaj plaws nrog tsev neeg koj tab tom yees duab, txiav txim siab xa lawv cov lus nug.

Nws yuav muaj cov lus nug yooj yim xws li: “Koj tsev neeg nyiam ua dab tsi?” lossis "Koj tsev neeg cov khoom noj txom ncauj puas nyiam tshaj?" Cov lus nug yooj yooj yim yuav pab koj tau txais kev daws ntawm lawv tsev neeg yog dab tsi thiab yuav muab koj cov lus los tham txog thaum tua tiag. Nyiaj tshwj xeeb! Lawv yuav ua rau lawv zoo siab thaum koj pib nug lawv txog lawv pawg football nyiam lossis lwm yam ntaub ntawv koj tus kheej uas koj tau kawm los ntawm cov lus teb.

Nqa cov khoom noj txom ncauj uas lawv nyiam tshaj rau qhov kev sib kho, yog tias nws yooj yim ua thiab thauj - ob npaug ntxiv!

Tsis tas li, kom paub tseeb tias koj muaj ib tug zoo tiag tiag “Hais txog kuv”Ntu hauv koj lub vev xaib. Nws mus ob qho tib si- tsev neeg xav paub koj thiab! Thaum koj muaj me ntsis kev paub txog keeb kwm ntawm tsev neeg thiab lawv muaj qee qhov dhau los, koj yog ib kauj ruam ze dua kom tau txais cov duab hauv tsev neeg.

2. Qhia txog leej niam (lossis txiv) uas npaj daim duab thaij duab.

Tus niam (lossis tej zaum yog leej txiv) yog tus pog siab rau cov duab no. Zoo! Tab sis qhia rau cov niam txiv paub ua ntej, hauv txoj kev zoo, qhov koj xav tau ntawm lawv thiab cov menyuam.

Cov niam txiv feem ntau nyiam qhia lawv cov menyuam kom “hais cheese” ntau ntau. Thaum no yuav ua haujlwm rau ob peb posed kev txhaj tshuaj, nws tsis ua haujlwm yog tias koj xav tau txais cov duab ntuj, lom zem nrog kev hlub. Thaum ib tug menyuam yaus “hais tias cheese”, qhov kev xav uas lawv tau tso nws lub qhov muag tam sim ntawd thiab koj sab laug nrog lub npub. Yog tias tus menyuam yaus ua dab tsi ntxim hlub, xws li khaws cov paj lossis qee yam, nco ntsoov cov niam txiv zaum rov qab thiab cia lawv. Koj xav tau cov sijhawm zoo ntxim hlub no. Ua ntej lub sijhawm koj tuaj yeem hais tej yam yooj yim xws li "Hav, yog li yog cov menyuam tsis luag nyav rau lub koob yees duab txhua lub sijhawm, tsis ua li cas!" lossis “Koj puas tuaj yeem pab kuv kom cov menyuam luag ntxhi rau ob peb daim duab? Tom qab ntawv lawv tuaj yeem muaj kev lom zem tom qab ntawd! ”

Nov yog ib qho piv txwv ntawm lub sij hawm uas tsis tau hnov ​​dua ntawm ib tug me nyuam ntxhais hnia ib co paj - lub koob tshuaj zoo nkauj no yuav tsis muaj yog tias muaj neeg hais tias:

Qhov no yog leej txiv thiab tub cov tub yees duab ntawm cia lawv muaj kev lom zem thiab chase txhua lwm yam nyob ib puag ncig. Tsis txhob ntshai hais qee lo lus txib yooj yim xws li: "Ib leeg hais kom ib leeg zuj zus, txhuam ib leeg, hnia koj tus viv ncaus, thiab lwm yam"

3. Cia cov menyuam ua lawv tus kheej.

Cov menyuam feem ntau tsis xav thaij thawj zaug. Nws yog qhov tsis zoo thaum twg ib tus neeg qhia lawv kom nres thiab luag tag nrho lub sijhawm. Cia cov me nyuam lawv tus kheej. Tsis txhob yuam kom lawv los ua tus neeg uas lawv tsis yog.

Yog tias lawv xav khiav ncig (thiab yog tias nws tsis ua li cas nrog niam txiv), tsuas yog cia. Tsuas yog tau qee cov duab ntawm lawv khiav thiab ua menyuam yaus. Yog tias lawv hais tso dag txaus luag tsis tos kom txog thaum lawv tso tseg - thaij ib daim duab. Kuv twv koj thaum tsev neeg tau txais cov duab uas lawv yuav nyiam lawv hais qhia ntau zaus ”Koj tau ntes lawv tus kheej.”

Tswv yim: Sim ua kom tau cov duab ua ntej loj thaum cov yees duab tua. Thaum qee cov kws yees duab yuav hais txawv, Kuv tau pom tias ib zaug cov menyuam sov siab rau koj lawv vwm thiab khiav thoob plaws qhov txhia chaw - nws zoo nkauj tsis yooj yim sua kom tau txais cov tsoos tom qab ntawd.

 Nov yog ib qho piv txwv ntawm kev cia tus tub ntxim nyiam no ua nws lub ntsej muag.

Tus hluas nkauj no ua si nrog lub paj. Tsis txhob coj nws mus lawm Kuv tsuas hais kom nws saib ntawm kuv- thiab bam! Saib qhov kev zoo nkauj ntawd.

4. "Kuv xav tias peb ua tiav tam sim no."

Koj, tus kws yees duab, yog tus saib xyuas lub yees duab tua. Koj muaj lub hwj chim los xaus kev yees duab, uas tuaj yeem yog lub cuab tam loj tshaj. Yog tias lawv tau them rau lub sijhawm, pom tseeb koj yuav ua tiav. Tab sis yog tias koj paub tias koj muaj cov duab zoo thiab cov niam txiv tau ntxhov siab thiab cov menyuam poob siab lawm… tsis txhob ntshai hais tias "Peb ua tiav tam sim no." Qee tus niam txiv yuav tsis ua dab tsi txog thaum lawv tos kom koj ua kom tiav, thiab qee qhov yuav ua rau lawv cov menyuam luag nyav rau lub sijhawm thiab ntau teev thaum koj tuaj yeem qhia lawv tias lawv tau ua tiav.

Nco ntsoov tias qhov kawg ntawm daim duab thaij rau ntawm daim ntawv zoo, lub teeb xim! Cia cov niam txiv tawm ntawm kev zoo siab, tsis ntxhov siab, thiab lawv yuav xa koj mus rau txhua tus phooj ywg!

Hauv cov ntsiab lus, nco ntsoov kom paub txog tsev neeg, qhia txog niam, qhia rau cov me nyuam lawv tus kheej, thiab ua tus coj ntawm kev yees duab! Yog tias koj siv tag nrho 4 lub tswv yim no koj yuav tsim cov duab uas tsev neeg yuav nyiam nyob mus ib txhis!

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