Kujambula zithunzi zokongola za abale

Kujambula zithunzi zokongola za abale

Nthawi zonse ndimaganiza kuti kujambula mwana m'modzi yekha ndikosavuta ngati chitumbuwa, koma kuti mukawonjezera abale, zimakhala zovuta pang'ono. Ndikajambula abale, zimangokhudza kuwonetsa kulumikizana pakati pawo, komanso kuwonetsetsa kuti aliyense akusangalala pochita izi. Zambiri zimadalira mibadwo ndi chikhalidwe cha ana, koma zimachitika nthawi iliyonse mukajambula ana.

Mukasungitsa gawo lanu kapena ngati mwafunsira zokambirana musanakhaleko, onetsetsani kuti mwafunsa makolo mafunso ena okhudzana ndi ana awo - amakhala bwanji, amasewera limodzi, adzagwirana manja, ngati mwanayo ndi wachichepere - Kodi mng'ono angalole mchimwene wake kuti amutenge - kwenikweni, funso lililonse lokhudza chibwenzi chawo komanso chilichonse chomwe chingathandize kuti mwanayo azikhala nanu momasuka. Simuyenera kuchita mantha kapena kukhumudwa ngati poyamba abale anu akuwoneka kuti sakufuna kukhala limodzi. Ndipamene luso lanu limayamba - khalani opusa, sewerani masewera, pezani malo omwe sangakwanitse kukana kukwera, kapena kuyimirira, aloleni kuti alalikire mawu oseketsa ndikungosangalala komanso kupumula m'chilengedwe. Komanso, ana amazindikira ngati mukuchita nawo mantha, chifukwa chake yesetsani kukhala omasuka panthawi yanu. Monga mayi wa ana atatu, kuyambira zaka 10 mpaka 2, ndimakhala womasuka kucheza ndi ana mgawo langa, nthawi zambiri ndikuwagwira manja kuwoloka msewu, kapena kuwanyamula kuti "tiwanyamulire" m'manja mwa alongo awo kuti achite nawo gawo.

Chifukwa ndikufuna kulumikizana pakati pa abale awo, nthawi zambiri ndimafuna kuti ana azikhala pafupi kwambiri. Izi zitha kukhala zachilengedwe ndi abale ena, koma osati mwa ena. Nthawi zina ndimayamba nditaima, ngati kugwirana manja, kenako ndikuti, "mmodzi, awiri, atatu - kukumbatira!" - kapena china chilichonse choti ziwayanjanitse. Ndili ndi banja limodzi ndi mchimwene ndi mlongo, amene ndakhala ndikujambula zaka zambiri. Tsopano, amandifunsa ngati angathe kugona wina ndi mnzake. Nthawi zambiri ndimafunsa mchimwene wanga wamkulu kuti atenge wamng'ono - sangathandize koma kukhala pafupi ndikusangalala - nthawi zina amagwa. Nthawi zambiri ndimawombera kwambiri ndikamafunsa ana kuti ayimire mwanjira inayake, kenako amangochokera pamenepo ndikuseka kapena kuchita zinthu zopusa. Nditha kuwafunsa kuti agwirizane ndikuyenda, ndiyeno pambuyo pa masekondi 30, ndikuwauza kuti athawe! Monga kholo, mumafuna koposa zonse kuti muwone ana anu akusangalala limodzi, ndichifukwa chake ndimayesa kutenga nthawi zodziwikiratu pakati pa abale omwe amangochitika tsiku ndi tsiku.

Ndi ana aang'ono, 4 mpaka pansi, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kuwapangitsa kuti azikhala limodzi panja. Chifukwa chake, ndimayesera nthawi zambiri kupeza china chomwe chingawakhazikitse - masitepe, mpando, mpanda. Amatha kupeza malowo kukhala osangalatsa kukhala pamenepo kwa miniti, motalika kokwanira kuti awombere onse awiri. Mwachitsanzo, pachithunzi cha anyamata amapasa kunyanja, anali atalowera mbali zosiyanasiyana mphindi yomwe mapazi awo adagunda mchenga. Tikawalola kuti akwere masitepe kwa mphindi zochepa, anali okonzeka kukhala limodzi - kenako kukumbatirana ndi kuseka ndikusangalala. Nthawi zina ana aang'ono amafunika ufulu wopeza mphamvu asanakhale chete ndikujambulidwa. Nthawi zambiri, ana aang'ono amafunika nthawi yopuma kuti azithamanga kenako, abweranso kudzatenga chithunzi, choncho khalani ndi nthawi yochitira izi.

Malingaliro ena osungitsa ana pamodzi - awagwire manja ndikupota, awagonetsa pansi pamodzi, ndimakonda kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "snuggle" ndipo amatero! Mutha kuwafunsa kuti apatsane ma piggyback okwera, kumpsompsona, kapena kukumbatirana, kapena kuwafunsa kuti anong'oneze kanthu mwakachetechete kwa abale awo. Atha kunyamulana (onani yemwe ali wamphamvu!), Akhale ndi mwana wamng'ono atagona pamimba pamwamba pa mchimwene wake wamkulu kuti akhale mphuno ndi mphuno kapena tsaya mpaka tsaya - ndizosangalatsa ndikusiyira ana Sangalalani. Upangiri wabwino, ngati ana ali ndi lingaliro la zomwe akufuna kuchita, aloleni ayesere - itha kukhala mphindi yapadera.

Pamapeto pake, ngati mungalole ana kuti azisangalala ndikusangalala, mudzatha kutenga mphindi zokongola za iwo limodzi. Khalani omasuka komanso osadandaula ngati sakuyang'ana pa kamera - ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti akuyang'anani ndikupanga kukumbukira komwe kungapitirire malinga ndi chithunzi chomwe mwajambula.

Alison Frank Chesney wa Alison Frank Photography ndi wojambula zithunzi komanso wojambula zithunzi zaukwati ku South Florida. Amasangalala kutenga mphindi zabwino za ana ndi mabanja kwazaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zapitazi.