Momwe Mungathanirane Ndi Mavuto Mukamadabwa Ngati Kujambula Kwanu Ndikokwanira

Onse ojambula amafunsa ngati ali okwanira nthawi zina. Uku ndikuwona momwe wojambula zithunzi, Spanki Mills, adatulukira m'madzi otsikawo.

CHINTHU.

Umu ndi momwe chaka chathachi ndimamvera kwa ine. Osati chifukwa idadutsa mwachangu osati chifukwa ndidali wosangalala kwambiri… koma chifukwa ndidali nditasochera. Ndinasokera m'mene ndinalili komanso zomwe ndimapanga. Ndinali kulola mawu amenewo m'mutu mwanga kundiuza Sindinali wokwanira. Iwo adakulirakulira - pamapeto pake amakhala ndi ulemu mkati mwanga. Ndinadzifunsa ndekha. Ndinafa ziwalo ndikukaikira kwanga ndi mantha anga.

Ndinadabwa kuti:

• Kodi ndine waluso?
• Kodi ndingathe kupanga ntchito yomwe ena angafune?
• Kodi ntchito yomwe ndikupanga ndiyomwe ndimakondanso?
• Ngati sindingazikonde bwanji wina aliyense?
• Ndine wabwino mokwanira?

Kuvutikira Kudzikayikira

Kunyumba kuli chete ... Ndimayang'ana koloko nthawi ili 2 koloko, ....... ndinafika bwanji kuno? Kodi uwu wakhala bwanji moyo wanga? Kulimbana ndi misozi ndikamakonzanso china chomwe sindimakondana nacho, chomwe ndinali pafupi kuchita manyazi kuwonetsa kasitomala wanga. Zinandipweteka kwambiri kuwona ntchito yomwe ndimakhala ndikulenga ndikudziwa… KUDZIWA kwinakwake mkati mwanga munali zambiri. Koma bwanji ngati izi sizinali zomwe aliyense amafuna kuwona. Bwanji ngati palibe amene amakonda zomwe ndimapanga?

Kodi ndinayamba liti kukhala wosangalatsa anthu? Zachidziwikire kuti ndinali nawo kale anthu osangalatsa mkati mwa umunthu wanga koma izi zinali zosiyana. Ndinali kulola zimenezo kundilemetsa ndi mantha. Poopa kuti ndipanga china chomwe sichimvetsetsedwa kapena kulandiridwa ndi makasitomala anga, abwenzi, ndi otsatira. Chifukwa chake m'malo mopanga mwaulere ... ndidachita mantha. Ndakhala chaka chimodzi cha moyo wanga ndikuchita zomwe ndimadana nazo. Ndinkakonda makasitomala anga komanso kuwapatsa ndendende zomwe amafuna, Ndinasiya kudzipatsa ndekha zomwe ndimafuna. Panali gawo laling'ono la ine, mwina lokulirapo kuposa momwe ndimadziwira, lomwe limadziimba mlandu. Monga ndinali wabodza. Ndinali kupatsa makasitomala anga zinthu zomwe sindimakhulupirira. Zinandipweteka mtima kuona zithunzizi zitangotuluka mu khadi langa lokumbukira ndikumva kuwawa kwambiri kuti ndiyang'ane nawo ndikamakonza malo oti "agulitse" iwo. Kodi ndingagulitse bwanji zomwe ndimachita manyazi kuti ndiziwonetse, zomwe sindimakhulupirira?

Nthawi ina ndinali wokonda zomwe kujambula kunandipatsa. Sikuti ndimangothandiza kuthandiza banja langa koma ndimadyetsa kena kake mkati mwanga. Ndinali wokondwa. Kodi zidapita kuti ndipo ndibwerera bwanji kumalo amenewo? Kodi ndine chabe "waluso" ndipo tonsefe timayenera kudutsa mu izi? Koma palibe amene adandiuzapo kuti izi zitha kukhala zovuta.

Malo Opambana

Ndinaganiza zoti ndisiye. Mwina ndangotaya, mwina zomwe malingaliro anga amandiuza zinali zowona… mwina sindinali wokwanira. Sikuti ndimakhala wokondwa, ndipo ine, ndimasowetsa mtendere banja langa ndipo ndimamva kuti ndimabera makasitomala. Palibe chomwe chinali "chabwino mokwanira" koma sindinadziwe choti ndichite kuti ndipeze komwe "okwanira" abisala. Mukanditsatira pa Facebook mukadazindikira momwe chaka chathachi ndidatumiza zochepa pantchito yanga. Zimadya malingaliro anga atsiku ndi tsiku. Zinkawoneka kuti sindingadule maunyolo awa omwe amandimanga ndi mawu omwe malingaliro anga amandiuza.

Kuposa tsiku lina ndidapempha mzanga kuti ndipite nawo kokaponya. Nthawi iyi inali yosiyana ngakhale ... ndimafuna kuti awombere… INE. Ndinkafuna kufotokoza m'mafanizo momwe ndimamvera. Momwe ndimawonera dziko lapansi kudzera mu chifunga changa. Kupyolera mu blur.

Nditabweza zithunzizo ndinazidutsa… ndikulira. Palibe chithunzi chimodzi chomwe chimayang'aniridwa komabe zinali zomveka bwino kwa ine komwe ndimakhala ndi zomwe ndimayenera kuchita kuti ndichoke pamalopo. Ndinafunika kutero pitani mukawombere KANTHU momwe ndimawonera dziko lapansi panthawiyi. Za ine. Palibe wondivomereza. Ndinafunika kusiya kuchita zabwino ndikukhala ndekha kuti ndiziwombera zokha.

Ndinafufuza zithunzi zomwe ndimakonda komanso zofananira nawo pano. Ndinawaika pazenera ndipo ndinayamba kulemba zomwe ndakumana nazo pazithunzizo. Ndinayang'ana zithunzizo m'njira yomwe sindinayambe ndagwirapo ntchito ya aliyense. Sindimayang'ana pazithunzithunzi zokongola komanso zangwiro, ndimangotulutsa mawonekedwe a chithunzicho. Ndinakhala pansi ndikuphunzira zithunzizi kwa maola ambiri. Ndidakonza zodabwitsazo ndipo pomwe ndidawombera nthawi yotsatira, ndidawombera osalabadira chithunzi chomaliza… ndidawombera kutengeka komaliza.

Potsiriza Free

Ndikhoza kunena kwa nthawi yoyamba kuti ndiyang'ane ntchito yanga yomwe ili ndi maola opitilira 48 ndipo NDILI WAKONDA (ndikudziwa kuti nonse mukudziwa zomwe ndikunena). Ndazindikira kuti sindingasangalatse aliyense pazithunzi zanga, koma iwo omwe amandikhulupirira kuti ndinene nkhani yawo, ayikonda ndikuiyamikira kwambiri chifukwa ikuwonetsa kachigawo kakang'ono ka moyo wawo. Sitikhala pamalo otetezeka, tonse pamodzi tithawa m'malo athu abwino. Ndipo ndikuzikonda!

Zinthu zisanu zomwe ndinaphunzira mkuntho chaka chatha…

1. Mawu anu amatha kusewera pamtima panu. Lolani kuti mumve nawo chifukwa mukawapondereza azikulirakulira komanso kukhala onyansa ndi nthawi.

2. Simuli angwiro, nthawi zina simumakwanitsa… ndipo sizabwino. Ngati mukuchita zowona nokha makasitomala anu adzawona chidutswa cha iwo okha mwa inu.

3. Lolani kuti mukhale osatetezeka. Sikophweka kuti muzidziwona nokha munthawi zovuta koma kudzera momwemo kukula kwanu kudzabwera.

4. Kukhala waluso wosasewera "motetezeka" kumachepetsa kufikira kwanu kwa makasitomala, koma kulimbitsa kufikira kwanu kwa iwo omwe ntchito yanu imawakhudza.

5. Pamene mtima wanu ukukuuzani kuti simukudyeranso ndi zomwe mumachita, lolani kuti mumve mawu amenewo ndikulola kuti musinthe.

Spanki Mills ndi msungwana wamkulu wamzinda wokhala mtawuni yaying'ono ya Texas akuchita zomwe amakonda ndikukhala ndi mphindi iliyonse paulendowu. Kutenga mphindi iliyonse momwe ikubwera ndikuphunzira ndikuseka m'moyo…. Ndi dzina longa Spanki… ndi chiyani china chomwe mungachite! @alirezatalischioriginal