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Erin Bell ndi Wojambula Wodabwitsa wa Ana ndi Ana ku Connecticut. Ndili ndi mwayi kukhala naye pano pa MCP Blog. Lero ndi mlendo wanga wojambula zithunzi ndipo aphunzitsa "momwe angamwetulire pazithunzi za ana." Chonde musiyireni ndemanga kumapeto kuno kuti adziwe momwe mumakondera izi. Adadzipereka kuti abwerera posachedwa, chifukwa chake muwonetseni CHIKONDI.

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Momwe Mungapezere Kumwetulira Kwachilengedwe

Palibe njira yeniyeni yopezera kumwetulira kwachilengedwe- zimasiyanasiyana kuyambira mwana mpaka mwana komanso msinkhu wazaka. Nthawi zambiri ndimayesa njira iliyonse yomwe ndili nayo ndi mwana aliyense mpaka ndikamamwetulira mwachilengedwe. Ndikapambana, ndimadziwa zomwe zingagwire gawo lonselo. Kumbukirani, awa ndi malingaliro anga chabe - koma ndimawona kuti amagwira ntchito bwino ndi makasitomala anga!

Miyezi 4-12

Kwa ana, ndimapeza ana ena akusangalala m'mimba mwawo ndipo ena pamsana pawo. Funsani makolo zomwe amakonda ndikuyesera kutsatira izi momwe mungathere. Ndimawona kuti kuyambira miyezi 4 mpaka miyezi isanu ndi itatu amachita bwino popanda makolo awo mchipinda- nthawi zambiri kupatukana nkhawa sikunayambebe. Ndinakhazika mwanayo pamalo pomwe ndimangoyamba kuwombera ndikulankhula. Ndimayimba nyimbo, ndikudumphadumpha ndikunena kuti ndi atsikana okongola kapena anyamata okongola, ndipo amangoyankhula chabe. Mawanga ena sakhala malo osangalatsa kwa mwanayo ndipo mutha kuyesa kwa maola ambiri osamwetulira. Ndimakhala pafupifupi mphindi zitatu paliponse ndipo ngati sindikumwetulira, ndiye kuti ndimatenga kuwombera kwakukulu, kolingalira ndikusuntha malo. Malo otchuka kwa ine ndi makama ogona pambali pa zenera, malo ogwirira pomwe ndimaponyera panja, ndikutsitsa zitseko zamagalasi ndikuwombera kuchokera panja. Pamapeto pake mumazipeza-makanda amasinthidwe mwachangu mwachangu.

Little B anali wabwino kumwetulira makolo ake chifukwa chake tinalandira zipolopolo zambiri monga choncho. Ndidatenga pafupifupi 50 pagawoli- 40 yomwe akuyang'ana makolo ake. Komabe, ochepa pomwe akundiyang'ana pang'ono kapena pang'ono ndi ofunika. Ndimachita chidwi ndikamayang'ana m'maso, chifukwa chake ndimawombera kwambiri ndikuwachotsapo onse osandiyang'ana. Kuyanjana kwa diso sikungwiro pano, koma makolo amakonda zithunzi ngati izi.

Pa miyezi 5, adachitanso bwino yekha. Ndinkamwetulira modabwitsa tikakhala tokha, komanso zopusa zambiri pomwe makolo ake anali pamenepo. Ndinkafuna zonse- kotero kuphatikiza kunayenda bwino. Onetsetsani kuti mukuyesera kutulutsa mawu osiyanasiyana- okhwima, olota, oseketsa, okhutira, ndi zina zambiri.

Zaka 1-3

Pokhapokha pali abale achikulire pafupi, ndimawona kuti ana azaka zapakati pa 1-3 amakhala ndi nkhawa zopatukana ndipo amachita bwino ndi makolo awo kumeneko. Nthawi zina makolo amathandiza kuti mwana amwetulire, nthawi zina samatero. Ndimakonda kuyesa zonse ziwiri. Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndi makolo amayamba kumbuyo kwanga ndipo amayimba nyimbo zomwe mwana wawo amakonda. Ndimayimba limodzi ndikugwedeza thupi langa mmbuyo ndi mtsogolo ngati kuvina ndipo sindimangoganizira zoyamba kujambula. Ndimajambula zithunzi zochepa zomwetulira pamene akuyang'ana Amayi ndi Abambo kuti mwina ndingapeze zonse, ndiye ndikangopeza zochepa mwa izo ndimapuma ndikungoyimba, ndikudikirira kuti mwana andiyang'ane . Ndimajambula zithunzi akatero.

Nthawi zonse ndimathamangitsa makolo ngakhale zitakhala bwino, chifukwa choti ndani akudziwa- zitha kupita bwino. Nthawi zambiri ndimafunsa ngati ndingakhale ndi kapu yamadzi oundana- ndimawapatsa katsulo ndi kunong'oneza kuti ndikufuna kuwona momwe mwanayo amachitira payekha. Kenako nthawi yomweyo ndimayamba ndi nyimbo ina. Nyimbo za m'badwo uno zimakhala njira yanga yayikulu. Samalani ndi nyimbo zomwe zimakhudza kusuntha kwamanja kwambiri- kusuntha kwamanyazi pamutu kungakhale vuto. Mwana akayamba kulira makolo ake akamachoka, nthawi yomweyo ndimawauza kuti abwerere tisanasungunuke.

Ngati angokhala okayikira, ndimatha kuwasokoneza. Ndimavina ndikugwirizira kamera yanga pang'ono kuti imveke ngati tikungosewera. Ndachita bwino kukhala ndi kamera yanga m'khosi mwanga mwadzidzidzi ndikunyamula ndikuyang'ana kuwombera komwe ndikufuna. (Ichi ndi chifukwa chake ndimaponyera pa AV mode. Mtundu wanga wowombera ndimasewera komanso mwachangu.)

Izi ndi "J" pang'ono. Adachita bwino ndi amayi ake komwe tidapeza. Sindingathe kudandaula mokwanira momwe zokumana nazo zatsopano zimasangalalira gulu lino. Ndili ndi iye ndinapumira ndipo ndinati, “O… muyenera kukhala pa sitepe. Sankhani. Kodi atenga gawo liti…. Oo! ” Kenako ndidatsika ndikusintha makonda anga ndikuyamba kumuuza. "Yang'anani pa iye, mfumukazi ya masitepe- tawonani momwe alili! Iye ali waaaay pamwamba pa masitepe. Heeeello Abiti. J! Ndikukuwonani, Mfumukazi Wolamulira masitepe! ” Dorky ndikumveka mopusa, koma zidamupangitsa kukhala wosangalala ndipo ndidapeza kuwombera komwe ndimafuna.

Sindingakuuzeni kangati momwe ndagwirapo ntchito ndi ojambula omwe amangokhala pamenepo ndikunena, “J…. J… tandiyang'anani ... mukutani ?? Tikuwonani… ”Ana amazindikira kuti izi ndizosangalatsa. Amafuna zokambirana zosangalatsa- zokumana nazo zatsopano. Muyenera kuwapatsa china chomwetulira ngati mukuyembekezera kuti adzamwetulira. Pemphani achinyamata amsinkhu wawo kuti ayesere zatsopano, kudziyimira pawokha, kukhala apamwamba. Ndimapita mgawo lililonse ndikumvetsetsa zaka zomwe ndikujambula.

Patapita kanthawi ndinadziwa kuti ndimafuna chithunzi chakumaso chapamwamba pampando woyera wogwedeza pakhonde lake lakumaso. Tidamuyika pomwepo ndipo nthawi yomweyo amafuna kutsika. Tidayesera kuyimba ABC koma pamsinkhuwu, nthawi zina ana amadwala nyimbo zoyambira. M'malo mwake ndinayima pamenepo ndikupanga nyimbo yomwe idapita, "Rockity rock, rock Rock, rock Rock rock rock rock rock. "J" miyala yamiyala, "J" thanthwe. " Khalani omasuka kuchita zinthu zopusa zomwe mumachita pamaso pa ana anu kwa ana a anthu ena. Anakhala pamenepo akumwetulira, osokonezeka pang'ono ndi ine, koma pamapeto pake adaganiza zoseketsa ndipo ndidalandira chithunzi chomwe ndimafuna. Kumbukirani kuti nyimbo zoyambira sizigwira ntchito nthawi zonse. Musaope kupanga nyimbo zopusa pamene mukupita.

Monga ndikutsimikiza kuti mwapeza, thovu limagwira ntchito ndi m'badwo uno. Ndili ndi makolo omwe amaphulitsa thovu kukhamera yanga- ndimabweza pang'ono ndipo mwana nthawi zambiri amayenera kundithamangira. Nthawi yonse yomwe kuwira kukuwomba ndimakonda kuyimilira ndikunena, "J !!! Mudangotulutsa thovu zingati !? ” kapena "Oo ubwino wanga, kodi mwawona izo !?" Zimapangitsa kuti kukhale kosavuta kuyang'anizana ndi maso nthawi yama thovu.

Zaka 4 ndi Kupita

Ndimaganizo anga kuti ndi okalamba ndizovuta kwambiri kuti anthu azimwetulira komanso nthawi zambiri, kumwetulira komwe kumagwira ntchito. Ndikunenedwa kuti, pali kukakamizidwa kosavuta, kosasangalatsa, kumwetulira kosasangalatsa, komanso kumwetulira kochokera pansi pamtima. Mukupita kumapeto. Ndi msinkhu uwu, nthawi zonse timakhala tokha- ine ndekha komanso nkhaniyo nthawi zambiri- ndipo timangokhala ndi zosangalatsa zambiri. Msungwana uyu adandionetsa kozungulira chipinda chake ndikundifotokozera zamasukulu. Ndimakonda kupeza mafunso ngati "Kodi anzanu apamtima dzina lanu ndi ndani?" “Kodi mphunzitsi wako umamukonda kapena ayi?” “Kodi m'kalasi mwanu mumamveka ndani?” "Kodi Mayi ako kapena Bambo ako ndi ndani?" amagwira ntchito bwino kwambiri popanga chibwenzi kuposa "Muli ndi zaka zingati?" ndipo “Kodi uli m'kalasi liti?” Amafunsidwa mafunso amenewo nthawi zonse- amatopa nawo tsopano. Ndawakhazika pamalo abwino ndikungoyamba kuyankhula nawo. Akamayankhula nane ndimayesetsa kumwetulira. Nthawi zina ngati sindiwo omwe amandiyang'ana akamayankhula ndimayenera kunena kuti, "Ndiyang'aneni mukamayankhula."

Ndimayankhula mosabisa mawu kenako ndimachita zinthu zosafunikira. Chinsinsi chofunsidwa koma kumwetulira kwachilengedwe pamsinkhu uwu chikuwapeza nthawi yomweyo. Ndinawalozera pakama ndikuti, "Chabwino tsegulani pamimba panu ndi kuyika manja anu pachibwano ..." Amachita izi ndipo ndinati, "O wangwiro. Muli nacho. Kondani… ndiyang'aneni… kopambana… izi ndi zokongola. ” Ndikulumphira mwachangu. Atsikana ndi anyamata onse amakonda mayankho abwino. Ndikapuma ndikungoyimba ndi kamera yanga kenako ndikuyang'ana kuti ndijambula chithunzicho kumwetulira kwawo kumakakamizika kwambiri ndikumwetulira. Chinyengo ndikuti kukhazikitsa kwanu musanapemphe kuti agone kapena pomwe akukhalapo.

Pachifanizo chachiwirichi, ndidamugwira. Amayang'anitsitsa zinthu zina (tinali kunyanja dzuwa lonse litakwana 12 koloko masana koma timapitabe… ahh!) Ndipo ndinabwera kumbuyo kwake komwe samandiwona ndikunena, "Hei," R ", Ndiyang'aneni ine!" Anatembenuka ndikuyang'ana ndikumwetulira. Zachidziwikire osati kumwetulira kwachilengedwe, koma nthawi zambiri ndimawona kuti kusefukira kwamtchire sikumagulitsa zambiri kwa ana okalamba- kumwetulira kosasangalatsa nthawi zonse AS amakondanso makolo ndikuganiza atakula.

Izi ndi njira zanga zopezera kumwetulira kwachilengedwe. Pali ena ambiri kunjaku, izi ndi zomwe zimandithandiza. Kudziwa momwe mungagwirire ntchito ndi ana komanso kudziwa magawo osiyanasiyana omwe ana amadutsa zaka zambiri kumathandiza. Ndimawona kuti kujambula kwanga ndi 60% kulumikizana kwanga ndi kasitomala, 20% zomwe ndimachita mu kamera, ndi 20% kukonza koyera. Musaope kutuluka m'malo omwe mumakhala bwino, kukhala opusa, ndikupanga zopusa nokha- pamaso pa makolo.