Iingcebiso ezi-6 malunga nokuLungelelanisa uBomi njengoMama kunye noMfoti woBuchule

Iingcebiso ngokuLungelelanisa uBomi njengoMama kunye noMfoti woBuchule

Ngaba ukhe wafuna ukukhupha iinwele zakho kuxinzelelo lwejuggling career, abantwana, ubomi bosapho, kunye nokunye?

Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa zokugcina konke kunye:

1. Bekela bucala iiyure zomsebenzi: UGrethel ucebisa ukuzama ukugcina iiyure "eziqhelekileyo" zeshishini. Gcina umkhondo wokuba zingaphi iiyure osebenza ngazo ngosuku. Yenza inqaku lokuba nekhefu lesidlo sasemini, njlnjl.ngokunjalo ukuba ubungasebenzi ekhaya. Musa ukwamkela iminxeba emva kweeyure kwaye usete ixesha elithile ukubuyisela ii-imeyile. Zama ukuphuma kumkhwa wokuhlala ufumaneka. Beka phantsi iphone.
2. Cwangcisa ixesha lakho lokuphumla / losapho: U-Ashley uyavuma ukuba akabeki kwikhalenda, ihlala ingenzeki. Oku kubandakanya ixesha lakhe kunye nexesha nabahlobo okanye nosapho. Ukuba ngumama wabantwana abaneminyaka yobudala besikolo esebenzayo ngumsebenzi ngokwawo. Yonke into ibekwa kwikhalenda, kubandakanya neentsuku zokuphuma. Gcina iindawo ezingenanto kwikhalenda yakho ngexesha losapho! Cwangcisa umhla wesidlo sasemini rhoqo nomntwana wakho okanye ubusuku bomhla nge-hubby.
3. Yiba yingcali: Kungenxa yokuba usebenza ikakhulu ekhaya, akufuneki ukuba unciphise ubuchwephesha bakho. U-Grethel uthi, yonke into esuka kwii-imeyile zakho, iincoko zefowuni ukuya kwiipakeji kufuneka zibe yingcali njenge studio enkulu yabasebenzi abaninzi. Gcina ixesha elimiselweyo kwaye ugcine ishedyuli engaguquguqukiyo yokuhambisa ubungqina, iimveliso, njl.
4. Yazi into onokuyiphatha: Le yinto u-Ashley avumile ukuba wayifunda ngendlela enzima. Kumanqanaba okuqala eshishini lakhe, izinto zakhula ngokukhawuleza. Ekuqaleni uthatha nawuphina umsebenzi oza ngendlela yakho. Kungekudala uza kuba nekhalenda eneencwadi kunye nemisebenzi engakulungelanga. Yazi ukuba zingaphi iiseshoni onokuzisingatha ngempumelelo kwaye usenobomi! Ukuba uhleli ngaphezulu kokucwangcisiweyo, uhlala uthatha iimpazamo ezininzi, umgangatho unokuhla kwaye izinto zinokuwela ngokuqhekeka. Thobela le mithetho ukuze ugcine ingqondo yakho iphilile. Musa ukuthatha imisebenzi engeyiyo eyakho. Ukuba umntu ukubuza malunga nemveliso yokufota, (ongazi nto malunga nayo) yigqithisele kumfoti wezorhwebo onetalente kwindawo yakho. Niya konwaba nonke kunye neziphumo!
5. Gcina indawo yokusebenza eyahlukileyo: Oku kunokuba ngumceli mngeni xa usebenza ekhaya. Uya konwaba ngakumbi kwaye uvelise ngakumbi ukuba unendawo apho ungazivalela khona ungasebenzi kwaye usebenze. Fundisa abantwana bakho ukuhlonipha loo ndawo. Kutshanje u-Ashley ushenxise indawo yakhe yokudubula wayisa kwigumbi elingaphantsi kwigumbi lesitudiyo ekwabelwana ngaso nabanye abafoti. Oku kulinciphisile kakhulu inqanaba loxinzelelo kuye nakwintsapho yakhe. Akusekho kuphinda kucholwe iilensi ngaphambi kokudubula! I-Grethel ikwindawo kuphela, enceda ukugcina ukwahlula ngokunjalo.
6. Hlala uhlelekile: U-Grethel ufungela uluhlu lwezinto aza kuzenza! Uluhlu lwemihla ngemihla kunye nexesha elide ziluncedo kakhulu ekugcineni umkhondo wezinto. Ngeefowuni zanamhlanje ezikrelekrele, ungenza ngokukhawuleza wenze inqaku okanye uluhlu kwaye ube nawe ngawo onke amaxesha. Ukusebenzisa izinto ezinje ngeApple's Mobile Me okanye ezinye iinkqubo zeteknoloji “zamafu,” kungenza ukuba ishishini lakho liqhubeke nokuhamba. Ungavumelanisa iikhalenda, abafowunelwa, ii-imeyile, njl njl zonke kwifowuni yakho kwaye zibonise kwimizuzu kwikhalenda yakho kwikhompyuter yakho okanye ngokuchaseneyo.

Ndiyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso ziya kukunceda uqhube ishishini eligudileyo kwaye ugcine ikhaya elonwabileyo!

UAshley Warren kunye no-Grethel Van Epps ngabazobi bezithombe kwindawo yaseBirmingham, AL. Bangoomama bobabini ukongeza ekuqhubeni amashishini abo asekhaya. Kulo nyaka badibene ukuze babambe indibano yocweyo (Yabelana… Iworkshop) yabo batsha kwishishini lokufota. Enye yezinto abazixinzelelayo kumasifundisane kukulinganisa usapho kunye nomthwalo womsebenzi. Ngolwazi oluthe kratya malunga nokwabelana… UMasifundisane, thumela i-imeyile ku-Grethel ku [imeyile ikhuselwe] okanye Ashley kwi [imeyile ikhuselwe].

Abantwana baka-Ashley.

Abantwana bakaGrethel