Ulugcina njani uLawulo lobuGcisa njengoMfoti oFanelekileyo

Ngaba uziva abafaki beefoto Ngaba kufuneka ulawule imifanekiso yabo? Njengomfoti wezithombe, ungumculi. Uyila umbono kwaye uyenze iphile. Ukusuka ekubuzeni, ekukhanyeni, ukuthumela ukuqhubekeka, ulawula ukubonakala kunye nokuziva kwemifanekiso yakho. Uhlobo lwakho luchaza ukuba ungubani njengomfoti oqeqeshiweyo. Ujonge, inkqubo, kunye nophawu.

Ngena umthengi… Kwenzeka ntoni xa umthengi wakho eneengcinga ezahlukeneyo? Wenza ntoni xa umthengi efuna ukuba usapho lwabo lunxibe konke okumhlophe kwiseshoni yaselwandle kwaye awwenzi njalo? Okanye kuthekani ukuba umntu omfotayo ufuna ukwenza into engathandekiyo? Ungathini ukuba umama eze nefayile ye- Isindululo sokuba ungaziva ulingana nombono wakho? Kuthekani ukuba umthengi ufuna ifayile ye- ifoto ehlelwe ngendlela ethile oziva ngathi ayilulo ukhetho olufanelekileyo, njengombala okhethiweyo? Njengomfanekiso wezithombe zomtshato, kuthekani ukuba isitayile sakho sintatheli yefoto kwaye umthengi wakho ufuna zonke iifoto zosapho kunye nemifanekiso emininzi yetafile?

Ngaba ngumsebenzi wakho njengomfoti oqeqeshiweyo ukukholisa abathengi bakho phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imeko? Ngaba kufuneka wenze oko kufunwa ngumthengi kuba bekuhlawula? Ngaba ubugcisa bakho kufuneka butyeshelwe? Yonke le mibuzo ixhokonxa iingcinga, kwaye akukho mpendulo ilungileyo okanye iphosakeleyo ebantwini, kodwa yeyakho. Ndikucebisa kakhulu ukuba unike le mibuzo ingcinga. Cinga ngokulungileyo kunye nokubi komntu ngamnye, okanye nokudibana embindini. Chaza indawo yakho ngoku ukuze xa ujongene nale meko, ube nokuma kwaye uyiyeke ikhokele izenzo zakho.

Apha ngezantsi kukho ezinye izimvo ngeendlela onokuthi ufumane ulawulo ngombono wakho wobugcisa ngelixa ugcina umkhulu inkonzo eyenzelwe:

• Fundisa umthengi wakho: Fundisa abathengi bakho ngaphambili, kwiwebhusayithi yakho kunye nokubonisana kwakho, malunga nesitayile sakho, ukuma, ukukhanyisa, indawo / useto olukhethiweyo, ukulungiswa kweposi, kunye nokukhetha iimpahla ozikhethayo. Bonisa abathengi bakho iisampulu zomsebenzi wakho. Qinisekisa ukuba bayawubona umbono wakho kwaye baziva bekhululekile ngawo.
• Khokela umthengi wakho: Ukwandisa umxholo wokufundisa, ubenzele izixhobo, ezinje unxibe ntoni izikhokelo, ibonisa izitayile kunye nokukhethwa kombala. Ukuba ufuna ukulawula iimpahla, njengoko bezisa iimpahla ezininzi kwiseshoni, kwaye ubazise ukuba uya kunceda ukukhetha ezona zibabazekayo nezifanelekileyo ngokusekwe kwindawo oza kudubula kuyo. Bazise ukuba ukhangela indawo ezizayo kwaye uyingcali kwaye wazi ezona zibane zibalaseleyo zokudubula. Qiniseka ukuba bayayiqonda indlela yakho. Ukuba wenza imitshato umzekelo, kwaye bafuna imifanekiso yetafile nganye, kwaye awuyenzi loo nto, musa ukubonisa nayiphi na imifanekiso kwipotifoliyo yakho kwaye ubazise ngaphambili.
• Bonisa umthengi wakho: Ngamanye amaxesha, eyona ndlela yokufundisa okanye ukukhokela umthengi wakho kukubabonisa ngokubonakalayo. Abasoloko benomfanekiso wesiphumo. Ke cinga ngokwenyani wenze oko kufunwa ngumthengi, emva koko wenze le nto uyifunayo. Ukuba wenza oku, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba banokukhetha indlela yabo. Kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi, baya "kuyibona" ​​xa sele ibonisiwe. Umzekelo, abathengi abaninzi baya kucela izityalo. Basenokungayiqondi impembelelo ye ulawulo yivoti kwaye uya kufuna ukuba sonke isifundo sigxile ngokugqibeleleyo. Kwezinye iifoto oku kuyakusebenza, kodwa ubukhulu becala, ayisiyiyo eyona khetho ifanelekileyo. Ke oku kusibuyisela emva “ekufundiseni umthengi wakho…” Bacacisele ngenkangeleko oyithandayo Ukulungiswa kweposi kwaye ubanike imizekelo yemveliso yakho yokugqibela. Cinga ngokwenza imizekelo yezinto ongeke uphinde uzenze.
• Nguwe ingcali: Yiba nokuzithemba emsebenzini wakho. Ukuba umthengi uziva ukuba awonwabanga okanye awuqinisekanga ngale nto uyenzayo, okanye ukuba uswele izimvo kuyo nayiphi na indawo yenkqubo, banokuthatha indawo. Ukuba bakubona njengengcali, baya kukuthemba nombono wakho.
• Vuleka: Ukuba ugcina ingqondo evulekileyo, umthengi wakho unokuba nembono entsha ongakhange ucinge ngayo ngaphambili. Nangona kunqabile, ukuseta kwamehlo ngamanye amaxesha kunokukhokelela kwinto oyithandayo kwaye ufuna ukuyifaka emsebenzini wakho wexesha elizayo.
• Zenzele igama lakho: Ukuba unayo uphawu olomeleleyo, isitayile kunye nesazisi, abathengi baya kuyazi ngcono into abayilindeleyo. Ukuba unendawo ebanzi yeemeko, iinkqubo zokuhlela, kunye nesitayile esipheleleyo, umthengi wakho ngekhe akwazi ukuchaza umsebenzi wakho. Kwaye kulula kubo ukuba bacele izinto eziphuma kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela okanye umbono wobugcisa.
• Ukukhetha ngesandla: Ukuba uxakeke ngokwaneleyo okanye uxabisa ulawulo olupheleleyo lobugcisa, khetha abathengi bakho endaweni yokubavumela bakhethe. Sukoyala ukwala ukurhweba ukuba ithemba licela izinto ongafuni kuzizisa. Amagama athi "andinguye umfoti ofanelekileyo kuwe" anokukuxhobisa. Khumbula xa sele uzichazile, uya kwazi ukuba ungakanani na ubhetyebhetye. Ukuba umntu uwela ngaphandle kwalonto, oku kunokuba lithuba lokubhekisa ishishini kukhuphiswano.
• Zibeke kwindima yompheki: Khawufane ucinge ukuba uku Indawo yokutyela eneenkwenkwezi ezi-5. Uyikhethile ngenxa yedumela, imenyu, inkonzo kunye nomgangatho wayo. Cinga ukuhlala phantsi kwaye ujonge kwimenyu. Kuthekani ukuba into oyifunayo uyayimangalisa, kodwa inesithako esinye ongayithandiyo? Unokucela into encinci. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe ulindele ukuba benze iresiphi eyahlukileyo engekho kwimenyu yakho. Kodwa khawufane ucinge ukuba bathi "hayi, asinakho ukwamkela isicelo sakho esincinci." Ungaziva njani? Ukuba umpheki usenokungafuni “ukuzama indlela yakho” njengoko evakalelwa kukuba oko kungayonakalisa incasa okanye umgangatho. Kodwa uphela uphoxekile, okanye mhlawumbi ukhathazekile okanye unomsindo. Eli ayilo liva uninzi lwakho uya kufuna ukuba abathengi bakho babe nalo. Ke khumbula ukuthatha isigqibo, ngaba "uthatha indawo encinci" okanye "wenze izinto ezintsha zemenyu." Okanye ngaba ungumpheki ongafuniyo, naphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko, ukuba afune ukubeka emngciphekweni incasa yokutya, kwaye kufuneka usoloko ulawula umsebenzi wobugcisa wokugqibela onikezelwe kwitafile?

Ke kwixesha elizayo xa uzibona unomntwana kwikomityi yeti, hayi ngokuzikhethela, okanye ngokokukhetha umbala kwinxalenye yomfanekiso omnyama nomhlophe ongafunanga, uthathe isigqibo sokuba awukhathali okanye uyakutshisa ngaphakathi. Cinga ngendlela oziva ngayo ngokulawula umbono wakho xa kuthelekiswa nokwenza umthengi onwabe. Yazi nokuba iifoto zakho ziya kuboniswa kumakhaya abathengi bakho. Abaxhasi bakho baya kwabelana ngemifanekiso nabahlobo, usapho kunye nabanye ekuhlaleni. Ukuba ukhetha ukulalanisa ukuthembeka kwakho njenge photographer yobungcali, kwaye wenze into engeyonxalenye yesitayile sakho okanye uphawu, ungangxengxezela olona hlobo usebenze nzima ukwenza.

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