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Yintoni eyahlula a i-snapshot elula ukusuka kwimpumelelo emangalisayo libali eliboniswa ngumfanekiso. Ndikholelwa ukuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka ithathwe kwifoto luvakalelo. Okukhona udubulo luba neemvakalelo, kokukhona lunomtsalane kwiimvakalelo zethu, kwaye kokukhona siziva sinxibelelana nalo. Ukuba umfanekiso uhambisa imvakalelo – nokuba lulonwabo, ukothuka, usizi, ukuzonya – uyimpumelelo.

Kodwa ubamba njani iimvakalelo ngokufota? Okokuqala, ufumana umzuzwana uze ubalise ibali. Kum, ukufota kumalunga nokubamba ubunyani, intshukumo, ukuzenzela, kunye neemvakalelo.

1. Hayi "itshizi", nceda.

Iimvakalelo, ngokwendalo yazo, azilandeli mithetho engatshintshiyo…..zizenzekela nje, ngokusekelwe kwindlela umntu aziva ngayo ngexesha elithile. Ziyinto entsonkothileyo kunye nolwelo lwemeko yomntu, kodwa ukubamba iimvakalelo kunokuba luqilima ngakumbi xa abantu besazi ukuba bayafotwa.

Iifoto endihlala ndizifumana nditsalwa kuzo kakhulu yileyo apho imvakalelo ethile omnye kunokuba nje ulonwabo lubanjwe. Enye impazamo eyenziwa ngabafoti yeyokuba bathi, “Smiiiiile!”, okanye “tshizi”, okanye nantoni na abayithethayo ukunyanzela abantu ukuba bachaze into enye rhoqo. Mhlawumbi yinto yokugqibela endiyifunayo. Nangona, ezi zithonga zinokwenza iinkumbulo ezintle kamva, umoya uhlala ugqunywe ngoncumo lwenkohliso okanye ngamanye amaxesha ubuso obusileyo, mhlawumbi nesandla esivale umlomo okanye amehlo.

2. Bamba umoya wesifundo sakho.

Ukuba umntwana omfotayo ukwimeko epholileyo, ezolileyo, yibambe loo nto. Ukuba umntwana ubetha ezindongeni, yibambe loo nto. Ukuba umntwana wakho ukujongile, ecaphukile kwaye akakholiswanga, yibambe loo nto. Akusoloko kufuneka ubeke izifundo zakho kwindawo ebekwe ngokwesiko ukuba ifoto ifanelekile- iifoto zihlala zilindele ukuba zenzeke, zivumele.

 3. Lindela "umzuzwana".

Izithonga ezingacetywanga ziyoyikeka. Nantso into entle! Xa isihloko sakho siwela, sijonge phezulu ngexesha obungalindelekanga, okanye siqhekeke, qiniseka ukuba uyasibamba! Ezo zihlala zingawona mahle, anyanisekileyo, achukumisayo, amaxesha.

4. Dubula emva “komzuzwana”.

Ezinye zeeshoti endizithandayo zabantwana bam zezo ndizibambe ngokufanelekileyo emva isithonga ebebesilindele. Oku kuxa bewuyeka lo moya bebewubambile, baphumze uncumo olunokuthi lunyanzeliswe, kunye nomzuzu xa umzimba wabo uwela kwimeko yendalo, ekhululekile.

5. Khangela kwaye ufote imizuzwana phakathi kokuma.

Singanika izifundo zethu umkhombandlela imini yonke, kodwa kukho into emangalisayo malunga nokuma kwendalo…kwaye ngamanye amaxesha loo mathuba afumaneka kuphela “phakathi” kwemizuzu.

Ke hlala ulindele intshukumo elandelayo, ngaphambi kokuba isifundo sakho sifike apho. Gcina ikhamera yakho iliso lakho kwaye uqhubeke ujonge ubuhle bendalo.

6. “Amehlo” anayo.

Amehlo yifestile emphefumlweni wethu. Ukuba umntu bekufuneka ahlukanise naliphi na ilungu lomzimba elinye ukuze abonise ngokuphandle iimvakalelo, ngamehlo. Umntu okanye isilwanyana, amehlo ahlala ebonisa into evakalelwa ngumxholo. Ugxininiso olunzulu emehlweni okhozi okanye ukufudumala okuthambileyo kwezo zesilwanyana sakho saseLabrador, okanye iintetho ezininzi zomdanisi we-ballet, amehlo ayisitshixo sokubamba iimvakalelo ezivakaliswa ngumxholo. Ishiya eliphakanyisiweyo okanye ukujonga emacaleni ngamanye amaxesha kunokuthetha oko amagama alikhulu angakwaziyo. Ndiyakuthanda ukufota abantwana bam kuba bayinyambalala yeemvakalelo, abakafundi ubugcisa bobuxoki, kwaye ungayibona ngokoqobo “inyaniso emehlweni abo”.

7. Khangela iinkcukacha.

Njengabafoti, ngokuqinisekileyo siyazi ukuba iimvakalelo zihanjiswa ngamehlo kunye nobuso. Ngumthetho lowo. Ngoko yaphule! Iimvakalelo zinokudluliselwa nangezinye iinkalo. Ungaze ucinge ukuba, amathontsi okubila athontsiza ebusweni, izimbo zomzimba ezenziwa zizandla neenyawo, okanye ukuma komqolo.

Ungazithinteli ngokukholelwa ukuba iimvakalelo zinokubanjwa kuphela ebusweni, endaweni yoko, zama ngoluhlu olupheleleyo lokutolika ngokweemvakalelo.

Ukubonakaliswa okunyanisekileyo kunye nokwenyani kwemvakalelo yinto etyhila umphefumlo womntu, ukubamba ukuba kwifoto yinto ebalisa ibali labo kwaye kufuneka ibe yinjongo yabo bonke abafoti. Akukho ukuphika, imvakalelo intle.

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