Ukufota kwabafazi: Ungabafota njani abaSetyhini abakhulelweyo

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Olona lonwabo lukhulu kuye kukubukela abathengi kunye nabantwana babo bekhula kwaye beguquka njengeyunithi yosapho; Ukusuka kumtshakazi oqaqambileyo ukuya kumama okhanyayo ukuba abe yimincili (kodwa ediniwe) umama omtsha! I-Pascale ikhetha ukusebenzisa ukukhanya kwendalo kwaye izise ukubonakalisa kwayo kunye nokonyusa ukongezwa kuyo yonke into.

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UPascale ukwangumbhali wencwadi "Ukuqala kwiShishini lokuFota ukusuka kwiNtloko ukuya kwiinzwane." Incwadi enamaphepha angama-80 epheleleyo enemibala igubungela iziseko zokufota ngokwedijithali ngokulula, ekulula ukuluqonda ulwimi. Ugubungela yonke into ukusuka kwisantya se-shutter, ukuvula, i-ISO ukuya kubude obugxile kuyo. Ukwagubungela izihloko ezinje ngawo onke amanyathelo awathathayo ukumilisela ishishini lakhe lokufota eliyimpumelelo kunye neengcebiso malunga nokuba ngumama ekuqhubeni nokwenza ishishini lakho. Ungena ngobuqhetseba kurhwebo lokufota ukukhulelwa kunye neentsana, kubandakanya iimfihlo ezincinci eziza kongela ixesha kunye nemali!

"Imifanekiso yoMama" Iposti yeBhlog:

Molweni bafundi beMCP ACTION! Ndonwabile kwaye ndiwongekile kukuba ndindwendwela apha iJodi kwaye ndabelana ngolwazi kunye namava nabo bonke nina bathwebuli zithombe abalungileyo phaya! Qiniseka ukuba ushiya uluvo ngezimvo zakho okanye imibuzo. Ndizakudlula ndiziphendule ezi ndinalo ixesha.

Iposti yam yebhlog namhlanje imalunga neMifanekiso yokuBeleka. Sonke siyazi ukuba umfazi uyamangalisa ngelixa esenza ubomi. Ukukhanya kokukhulelwa kuyinyani! Oko kwathiwa, kukho imiba yokukhulelwa enokuthi ibeke umda kwindlela umfazi avakalelwa ngayo ngaye nangomzimba wakhe xa "emithi." Ndiyakholelwa ukuba umfazi ungoyena mhle kakhulu, uyamangalisa, uyamangalisa kwaye unikwe amandla xa ekhulelwe. Ndiyithatha loo nkolelo kunye nam kuyo yonke into yokubeleka ndiyenza kwaye ndihlala ndicinga ukuba ndiqinisekile ukuba lo mfazi AKAHLEKILE nje ukuba uhlahlela kuye, nokuba uziva engaphantsi kwesini, ekhazimla, emangalisa ngelo xesha lokukhulelwa kwakhe. . Njengoko kuvela, ukukhulelwa kunye nemifanekiso esandul 'ukuzalwa ngamanqanaba am endiwathandayo. Uchulumanco lwam lunokubonakala. Ndiqinisekile ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba izifundo zam ziya kuyazi loo nto kum nokuba khange ndiwuvule umlomo wam.

Kodwa, ndiyisithethi, ke ndiyabazisa ukuba ndilithanda kangakanani eli nqanaba kunye nokuba ngumlingo kangakanani kum. Ndicinga ukuba ndikwazi ukwabelana nabo ngendlela endichukumiseke ngayo ngeli nqanaba ebomini babo kunye noomatshini bento eyenziwa ngumzimba welo bhinqa apho kunceda nje ukuba bonwabe bonke malunga nokuyithatha yonke ifilimu. Ewe, ukuba bendinganyanisekanga malunga nendlela endiziva ngayo, oko kuya kubonakala kwaye ungathethi nantoni na ongayithethiyo! Kwenzeka ukuba ndiyithande kwaye ndicinga ukuba imifanekiso yam ibonisa indlela endinomdla ngayo kumzimba okhulelweyo endinawo.

Phambi kokuba kudutyulwe ndithetha nomama malunga nezinto azithandayo kunye nendawo yokuthuthuzela ngokubhekisele kubungakanani "benyama" afuna ukuyibonisa. Abathengi bam baqhuba i-gamut epheleleyo ekubeni igqunywe ngokupheleleyo ukuya kubunqunu ngokupheleleyo. Ndikhululekile ngokupheleleyo nokuba kungasiphelo sembonakalo nayo yonke into ephakathi. Ngokwazi kwangaphambili ukuba bakhululekile na kwaye ndinokuqala ukubonwa kwangaphambili ngaphambi kokuba sifike. Ndiyakuthanda ukufumana i-vibe eqinile kumbono womthengi ngamnye we-OWN yokudubula. Ndiyababuza ukuba yeyiphi imifanekiso yam abatsalwe kuyo ukuze bazive benoluvo lwabo lobuhle kunye nesitayile. Oku kundinceda ndiphumeze iziphumo endaziyo ukuba ziya kubonwabisa. Kwenzeka rhoqo rhoqo ukuba umntu athi kum abafuni kuboniswa sisisu kwaye xa kuphela ukudubula baya kuba ze, ngokuzithandela! Konke malunga nokwenza ukuba zikhululeke kunye nokuseka iTrust. Ukuba umthengi wakho uyazi ukuba angakuthemba ngesisu sakhe esikhulu esikhulelweyo kwaye uza kumenza abonakale elungile kwaye amele ngokuchanekileyo imimangaliso yento eyenziwa ngumzimba wakhe uya kukhululeka avumele umzimba wakhe ube sisiqwengana sobugcisa.

Kwidubulo uqobo, ndilinganisa ukuba umthengi ngamnye unjani (ungeniswa ngakumbi okanye ukhutshiwe?) Kwaye uhambe apho nendlela yam. Ndichitha ixesha elininzi ndibandakanya utata ukuba abekho kuba kunokwenzeka ukuba arhuqelwe apho ngokungathandabuzekiyo kwaye ujonge phambili ekufumaneni oku. Ukuphela kokudubula abafana ngamanye amaxesha BANGAKUMBI kuyo kuneqabane labo. Oko kwenza usuku lwam. Ndikhuthaza uninzi lothando, ukubonisa kunye nokuthantamisa maxesha phakathi kukatata nomama endiyaziyo ukuba amadoda ayayixabisa. 🙂

Ngokubhekisele ekuzifumaneni ndinemithetho embalwa endihlala kuyo kwaye ukusuka apho, yinto yasimahla kubo bonke. Umthetho wam wokuqala kukuba andisoze ndibenomama oza kuba ngumama phantsi, ezantsi ehleli kwizithende zakhe okanye ehleli kwibhentshi / esihlalweni esisezantsi. Konke okwenzayo kukucinezela amathanga akhe kwaye kubenze bajonge kabini ubukhulu obuqhelekileyo. Ayithandeki kwaphela loo nto. Awunakuze ufune "ukunyanzela" umzimba womntu. Konke malunga UKUHLALA. Ndiyakuthanda ukwenza izithonga zokukhulelwa ezivela phezulu. Kuyanceda ukubonisa isisu kunye nokwenza umama ajongeke kwaye azive emhle. Ikwasusa nayo nayiphi na imiba "yesilelu ephindiweyo". Ngalo lonke ixesha lokudubula ndiyazi ngokuhlala ndixelela umama indlela amhle ngayo. Okukhona ndimxelela oku, kokukhona ebengezela. Kwakhona, ndiyakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba umfazi ngowona mhle ngeli xesha ngoko ke kuvela entliziyweni. Abathengi bam bayazi ukuba anditsho nto andithethi.

Andinangxaki malunga nokusika iintloko kwaye ndigxile esiswini. Ndiyakuthanda ukufaka yonke i-engile enokubakho. Ndinabafazi abalala phantsi, bancike kwiingcingo, balala emacaleni abo, uyiqambe igama. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukuziva ngesisu kunye nomzimba kamama ngamnye kwaye ekugqibeleni uya kuqala ukwazi ukuba yeyiphi into eza kusebenza kuliphi ibhinqa. Wonke umzimba okhulelweyo wahlukile. Njengeprint zeminwe, akukho babini babasetyhini abakhulelweyo abaya kuba nohlobo olufanayo lomzimba okanye ubungakanani. Abanye abantu basetyhini bayakwazi ukuzisonga kwi-pretzel kwiinyanga eziyi-8.5 kunye nokubulela kwiiseshoni zeyoga zemihla ngemihla. Wonke umntu wahlukile. Ngalo lonke eli thuba ndijonga ukuba yintoni ezakusebenza kwaye yintoni engazukusebenza ngokuxhomekeke kumntu endimfotayo. Ngokusisiseko, ihlumelo ngalinye lisiko elihambelana kakhulu nalaa mfazi kunye nomzimba wakhe. Kukujonga kwam ngokusondeleyo kwiinkcukacha kunye nokukwazi "ukufunda" abantu kunye nokufumana ukuqonda okuhle komntu ngamnye okundivumela ukuba ndifumane uhlobo lwemifanekiso egqibeleleyo kubo. Kukho ukungqinelana okusemsebenzini, ukusondelelana phakathi komfoti kunye nesifundo sakhe esivumela umlingo ukuba wenzeke.

Kwaye okokugqibela, kodwa kungaphelelanga apho, kukho iimeko zokukhanyisa ezikufutshane. Sonke siyazi ukuba uza kufumana iifotsholo ezahlukileyo ukuba lusuku olunamafu / olunamafu xa kuthelekiswa nosuku olunelanga. Uyazi ukuba ii-silhouettes azinakwenzeka ngemini enamafu kodwa zisebenza ngokuqaqambileyo ngemini enelanga. Endleleni yam yokuya kudubula ndibaleka kuwo onke amathuba ahlukeneyo ngokusekwe kwiimeko zokukhanyisa ezikhoyo. Ndisebenzisa isibonakaliso esikhulu sokujikeleza kuyo yonke into endiyenzayo. Ndiqala ukusuka kude nesibane esicaba. Ewe iyinto eqinisekileyo kwaye kulula kodwa ikwanje ngo “blah.” Ke, ndilwazi kakuhle ulwalathiso lokukhanya kunye nendlela endifuna ukukusebenzisa ngayo ukundinceda. Ndijonga izinto ezibonakalayo zendalo naphi na apho ndihamba khona (okt: udonga olukhulu olumhlophe olujonge ilanga njlnjl.). Ndijonge "ukubiyela" iifoto ezifana nemithi, iingcango kunye neefestile. Ndijonge iipokotho zokukhanya okubonisiweyo njenge-overhangs kunye neeveranda. Ndijonge iindawo endinokuma kuzo ndidubulele izifundo zam. Ndijonge iipropu zendalo okanye nantoni na eza kwenza umsebenzi wam ubelula okanye inike imifanekiso yam ukomeleza. Ndihlala ndikhangela indawo endikuyo ndizokufumana izinto ezintsha ezinomdla. Ndihlala ndiyazi ukuba ukukhanya kwam kuvela phi kwaye ndingakusebenzisa njani ukuze ndixhamle. Ukuba andinakho ukukhanya endikufunayo kwindawo endiyifunayo, ndiye ndenze nje ukukhanya ndenze le nto ndifuna ukuyenza ngesikhombisi / kwisiphatho sam (okanye ukukhanya xa kufanelekile). Ndikubiza ngokulawula ukukhanya, ukwenza izithunzi endizifunayo apho ndizifuna khona kunye nokwenza izibane endizithandayo.

Okokugqibela, kwaye le yinto esandula ukwenzeka kum, ukuba andiyithandi ngoko nangoko le nto ndiyibonayo kwisikhangeli sam, andithathi mfanekiso. Ndiyarhoxa ndize ndithi: “asikafiki apho” kunokuba sichithe nje ixesha lomntu wonke kwindawo yokuma / indawo / imeko yokukhanyisa engalunganga. Kuya kufuneka ndijonge kwisibonakalisi sam kwaye ndicinge ukuba "KUKHO !!!" kwangoko okanye andiqhubeki. Kwaye ukuba oko kuthetha ukuzama ii-engile ezintathu okanye ezine ezahlukeneyo ndide ndiyifumane “kulungile” makube njalo. Ukuba uqala ukumamela intuition yakho kwaye uyihloniphe ngenxa yento enokuyiqonda, uya kukwazi kwangoko ukuba oko kufanelekile kukuthatha. Kuya kufuneka ubenentembelo kumandla akho okuba nombono wefoto kwaye uyazi kwangoko ukuba iyasebenza okanye ayisebenzi.

Zive ukhululekile ukusebenzisa ipotifoliyo yam ekwi-intanethi ngemizekelo emininzi yomsebenzi wam. Eyona nto iphambili kukuba kuthatha uQINISEKISO lokuziqhelanisa ukuze ufike kwindawo apho unesiphatho esifanelekileyo kwimifanekiso yokubeleka. Ndisajonga yonke into endiyenzileyo "endiyenzayo" kum ibangcono kwaye ibengcono. Ke, phuma uye uzilolonge. Musa ukoyika ukuqhubeka uzama ii-angles ezahlukeneyo kunye neeposisi de ufumane into ekusebenzela. Qhubeka uzityhala ngokuzolula amaphiko akho okudala ukuya kuthi ga apho aya khona.

Ndiyathemba ukuba oku kuluncedo! Zive ukhululekile ukuthumela imibuzo kwicandelo lamagqabaza apha kwaye ndiza kuzama ukudlula kwaye ndiyiphendule.