Izeluleko ezi-5 zabathwebuli bezithombe zokungena ezithombeni nemindeni yabo

Esikhathini esithile phakathi komzuzu wokuqala ngithathe ikhamera futhi namuhla, ngithathe amakhulu ezinkulungwane zezithombe. Lapho ngisemncane, ngangithatha izithombe zabazala bami emibuthanweni yomkhaya. Njengoba ngangikhula, ngathatha izifinyezo zabangane bami esikoleni, isoka lami (manje elingumyeni) elidlala eqenjini le-rock, kanye nenja yami engiyithandayo, uBrady. Lapho nje abafana bami ababili befika, inani lezithombe eqoqweni lami laqotha amashadi, futhi lapho ngiqala ibhizinisi lami lokuthwebula izithombe, ngangeza izinkulungwane zezithombe zamakhasimende ami.

Uyazi ukuthi yini eyayilahlekile eqoqweni lami? Mina.

Eminyakeni engaphezudlwana kwemibili edlule, umngani wami wabulawa ngesikhathi ejaha ekuseni. Ngenkathi ngihleli emngcwabeni wakhe futhi ngibuka umbukiso wesilayidi wempilo yakhe, ngashaywa ukwazi ukuthi izithombe azishiya ngemuva zazingezinto eziyigugu ezingazuzwa izingane zakhe, umndeni nabangane bakhe kuze kube phakade.

Kwathi ngo-Okthoba 2013, UJodi Friedman ubhale okuthunyelwe kwakhe mayelana nokuthwetshulwa kwakhe. Kuze kube namuhla, lokho okuthunyelwe kumile njengokuyintandokazi yami kule bhulogi, futhi kwaba nethonya elinamandla kakhulu ekutheni ngizibheka kanjani nokuthi ngizizwa kanjani ngokuba sezithombeni.

Bengilokhu ngicabanga ngokufa komngani wami nezithombe azishiyele izingane zakhe, futhi ngabona ukuthi ngidinga ukuyeka ukungaqiniseki kwami ​​kungigcine ngemuva kwekhamera nangaphandle kwezithombe, ngenxa yabathandekayo bami - ikakhulukazi izingane. Kodwa-ke, imizamo yami yokungena ezithombeni ngisebenzisa isibali sikhathi kwikhamera yami ibicindezela ngokuphelele.

Ngesikhathi sohambo lwethu oluya e-Jekyll Island, eGeorgia, ehlobo eledlule, nginqume ukuthi ngizothatha ezethu izithombe zomndeni olwandle ngisebenzisa leyo ndlela.

Esikhundleni sezithombe ezinhle engangizicabanga, lokhu kwaba okungcono kakhulu engingakwenza:

Futhi yize lesi sithombe simele inkumbulo yalesosikhathi esisodwa lapho ngangikhathele ngiphelele ngijuluke ngigqoka ingubo yami ngenkathi ngigijima ngiya ngapha nangapha phakathi kwekhamera yami nabafana abathathu abakhungathekiswe ngendlela emangalisayo, kwakungeyona isithombe esihle engangifuna ukusilengisa odongeni lwami .

Dlulela phambili kulo nyaka…

Kulo nyaka, ngenkathi sihlela iholide lethu esiQhingini iJekyll, ngahlela isikhathi sesithombe nomthwebuli zithombe wendawo lapho. Ngokokuqala ngqa ukwethula ibhizinisi lami lokuthwebula, bengiyiklayenti lokuthwebula. Ngaphezu kwezithombe zabantwana bami abadlala olwandle engizithathele zona, kulo nyaka ngithole izithombe ezinhle kakhulu zomndeni wami wonke.

Njengomphumela wokuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​okuhle phambi kwekhamera ukuze kube noshintsho, kunezifundo ezimbalwa engizifundile engingathanda ukwabelana ngazo. Nawa amanye amathiphu wokukusiza ungene ezithombeni futhi uthandane nazo.

1. Qasha umthwebuli zithombe

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​kokuzama ukuthatha izithombe zami zasolwandle zomndeni ehlobo eledlule kwakukhathaza futhi kukhungathekisa. Ngiyajabula ukuthi nginezithombe eziningi ezinhle zomyeni wami nezingane zami engingazidlulisela kubafana bami ngelinye ilanga, kodwa futhi ngifuna ukuba bakhumbule ukuthi umoya wasolwandle wenza frizzy kanjani ukwenza izinwele zami nendlela ikhala lami eliklwebha ngayo kancane lapho Ngiyahleka. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ngifuna babe nobufakazi bezithombe zothando lwami ngabo ukubakhumbuza isikhathi eside sengingasekho. Ngifuna abazukulu bami babone uthando enginalo ngabazali babo nakumkhulu wabo.

Njalo ngemuva kwekhamera kukugcina kungenzeki lokho. Yize kunamathani amaningi abathwebuli bezithombe asebenobungcweti besikhathi sokuzibamba noma ukukhishwa kwe-shutter eyihlane, angiyena omunye wabathwebuli zithombe. Uma ungeyena, zisindise ekucindezelekeni nasekukhathaleni bese uqasha umthwebuli zithombe ukuthi akuthathele lezo zinto.

Yenza ucwaningo lwakho

Ngenkathi ngiqala ukuzama ukuthola umthwebuli zithombe endaweni yase-Jekyll Island, ngangazi ukuthi ngifuna umthwebuli zithombe; noma kunjalo, alikho inani lokusesha elithole "okulungile". Ngithole ithoni labathwebuli bezithombe zomshado, abathwebuli bezithombe eziningana ezisemthethweni, kanye nabanye abambalwa abathwebuli bezithombe zomndeni, kepha azikho izithombe zabo obekuyilokho ebengikufuna uqobo. Ngakho-ke, angiqashanga muntu. Eqinisweni, nginqume ukungabi nazo izithombe ezithathwe eholidini futhi ngaqala ngacwaninga ngabathwebuli bezithombe bendawo. Kwathi-ke, ngosuku oluthile, ngacwaninga ngabathwebuli bezithombe zokuphila endaweni yaseJekyll Island futhi. Ngalesi sikhathi, umphumela wokuqala wokusesha kwami ​​kwaba ngumthwebuli wezithombe ogama lakhe linguJennifer Tacbas. Ngibheke iwebhusayithi yakhe futhi ngathandana.

Le piggy-backs off "Qasha umthwebuli zithombe." Musa ukuqasha noma yimuphi umthwebuli zithombe. Yenza ucwaningo lwakho bese uqasha umthwebuli wezithombe omsebenzi wakhe uxhuma kakhulu kuye. Uma uthatha isinqumo sokuqasha uchwepheshe ozokwenzela izithombe, ungaqashi muntu uze uthole umthwebuli wezithombe olingana nesitayela osifunayo sezithombe zakho. Bengingafuni imidwebo esemthethweni. Bengifuna umthwebuli zithombe. Esikhundleni sokuqasha umuntu kusuka kuzinketho ezitholakalayo, ngalinda ngaze ngathola okungcono kakhulu ukuthi ubani owayengitholile, mathupha.

3. Khulumisanani

Ngesikhathi ngithumela i-imeyili okokuqala kuJennifer, ngamazisa ukuthi indodana yami encane, uFinley, une-autistic. Bengifuna ukuthi azi ukuthi ukunakwa kwakhe nanoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuxhumana naye emehlweni kungenzeki, ikakhulukazi endaweni entsha efana nokuthi bengazi ukuthi iyiphi indawo ngenkathi kuseholidini. Kuzo zonke izingxoxo zethu ezilandelayo, ngigcizelele umqondo wokuthi izithombe “ezinhle” nawo wonke umuntu omomotheka kukhamera zibalulekile kimi. Bengifuna izithombe eziyiqiniso ezikhombisa ukusebenzisana kwethu njengomndeni, ebengivele ngazi ukuthi uJennifer uzokuthwebula ngemuva kokubuka umsebenzi wakhe. Ngangifuna nokuthi anciphise izinga lokucindezeleka. Bengifuna ukuthi naye asijabulele iseshini yethu, futhi bengingafuni ukuthi esabe ukuthi ngizodumala uma isithombe “esihle” singenzeki. Izithombe ezivelile bezisalungile, ngazo zonke izindlela—incazelo ehlukile yegama.

Qiniseka ukuthi wenza umthwebuli zithombe wakho azi nganoma yiziphi izingqinamba ezingabaluleka kuwe. Ngabe unengane ethukile phakathi kwabantu ongabazi? Kuthiwani ngokungavikeleki komuntu siqu, njengokuzonda ikhala lakho noma ukumamatheka? Noma unenkinga efana neyami? Vumela umthwebuli wakho wezithombe azi ngaphambili. Ngokwenza njalo, ungaqinisekisa ukuthi umthwebuli wakho wezithombe unolwazi oludingekayo ukwenza iseshini yakho ibe ngcono kakhulu.

I-4. Kujabulele!

Esikhundleni sokuqeda iseshini yethu ngikhathele futhi ngijulukile kusuka ekugijimeni ngibuye ngiye ekhamera yami, ngiphele iseshini yethu ngikhathele futhi ngijuluka ngenxa yokuba mnandi omangalisayo nomndeni wami. Sasidlala esihlabathini, sizungeze sizungeze, futhi sinezimpi ezikitazayo. Sihlolisise iDriftwood Beach nezindawo zeJekyll Island Club Hotel, saqabulana ngamakhala, futhi sajaha izinkalankala. Ngamafuphi, saqhuma.

Uma ukhetha ukuqasha umthwebuli zithombe, isizathu esikhulu sokwenza lokho ukuzisindisa ekucindezelekeni. Kusho ukuthini lokho? Ungakhathazeki. Kujabulele. Ukwenza lokhu ngeke kukhiqize kuphela izithombe ezibonisa ukusebenzisana kwangempela, kepha futhi kungasiza noma imaphi amalungu omndeni wakho angahle angajabuli ngokuba nezithombe zomndeni ezithathwe njengawe.

5. Thanda Izithombe Zakho

Labo abangithandayo bayazi ukuthi ngingakugxeka ngendlela emangalisayo ukubukeka kwami, okungenye yezizathu engivame ukujabula ukuba ngemuva kwelensi esikhundleni sokuba phambi kwaso. Noma kunjalo, Okuthunyelwe kukaJodi Friedman maqondana nesipiliyoni sakhe sokuthwetshulwa kwezithombe bekungivula amehlo ngokweqiniso, ngakho-ke ngaphambi kokubuka izithombe ngesikhathi sethu, ngithathe isinqumo sokuthanda indlela engibukeka ngayo kuzo. Nangempela ngenza njalo. Ngoba ekugcineni, izingane zami azinendaba nezibambo zami zothando. Abasoze baqaphela ukuthi ngabe nginesilevu esiphindwe kabili noma ukubukeka kobuso ebusweni bami esithombeni. Nami angifanele. Bengingenazo izithombe ezithwelwe abangane ezinkundleni zokuxhumana (noma abafundi balokhu okuthunyelwe) abangahle bagxeke ukubukeka kwami. Ekugcineni, nganginezithombe ezithathelwa amadodana ami, uGavin noFinley. Ngakho-ke ekugcineni imibono kaGavin noFinley iyona kuphela ebaluleke kimi.

Noma ngabe uyabuthanda noma uyakuzonda ukubukeka kwakho, yenza isinqumo sokuthanda izithombe ezilondoloza lokho oyikho. Funda Okuthunyelwe nguJodi, uma udinga ugqozi olufanayo olwangenza ngakwazi ukwenza kanjalo.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​phambi kwekhamera njengeklayenti lokuthwebula izithombe kunginike izinkumbulo eziyigugu, izithombe ezinhle manje ezilenga odongeni lwami, nombono omusha njengomthwebuli zithombe. Umthwebuli wethu wezithombe usiphathe ngomusa, ngesineke nangobungcweti futhi ngithemba nje ukuthi ngenza amaklayenti ami ezwe ngendlela asenze sazizwa ngayo, ngesikhathi seseshini futhi njalo lapho sibheka umsebenzi wakhe omuhle.

Phuma ngemuva kwekhamera wenze ushintsho. Uma ukwenza kanjalo kusho ukuqasha omunye umuntu, qasha umuntu owuthandayo umsebenzi wakhe. Khuluma ngokulindelekile, zijabulise ngesikhathi sakho, futhi uzithande nezithombe okuzo.

Abathandekayo bakho bayojabula ngokuthi ukwenzile.

Izithombe zikaJennifer Tacbas zifakwe ngemvume evela kumthwebuli zithombe.

ULindsay Williams uhlala eningizimu enkabeni yeKentucky nomyeni wakhe, uDavid, namadodana abo amabili, uGavin noFinley. Lapho engafundisi isiNgisi esikoleni esiphakeme noma echitha isikhathi nomndeni wakhe, ungumnikazi futhi usebenza iLindsay Williams Photography, egxile ekuthwebula izithombe ngendlela yokuphila. Ungahlola umsebenzi wakhe kuwebhusayithi yakhe. Ungahlola umsebenzi omningi nguJennifer Tacbas on Iwebhusayithi kaJennifer.