Izindlela Ezi-7 Zokuthwebula Umzwelo Ekuthwebuleni Kwakho Izithombe

Yini ehlukanisa i- isifinyezo esilula kusuka empumelelweni emangalisa yindaba isithombe esivezayo. Ngikholwa ukuthi into ebaluleke kunazo zonke ezothathwa esithombeni imizwa. Lapho ukudutshulwa kungokomzwelo ngokwengeziwe, kulapho kukhanga kakhulu izinzwa zethu, futhi kukhula ukuxhumana esizizwa ngakho kukho. Uma isithombe siveza imizwa - noma ngabe injabulo, ukumangala, usizi, ukunengeka - siyaphumelela.

Kepha uwuthatha kanjani umzwelo ngezithombe? Okokuqala, uthola isikhashana bese uxoxa indaba. Kimi, ukuthatha izithombe kumayelana nokuthwebula ubuqiniso, ukunyakaza, ukuzenzela, kanye nomoya.

1. Ngicela ungabi noshizi.

Imizwelo, ngokwemvelo yayo, ayilandeli imithetho emile… ..zivele zenzeke, ngokususelwa kulokho umuntu akuzwayo ngesikhathi esithile. Ziyisici esiyinkimbinkimbi futhi esiphundu sesimo somuntu, kepha ukuthwebula imizwa kungaba yinkohliso ikakhulukazi lapho abantu bazi ukuthi bayathwetshulwa.

Izithombe engivame ukuzithola ngikhangwa kakhulu yilezo ezinye imizwa nezinye ukwedlula injabulo kuphela. Iphutha elilodwa abathwebuli bezithombe abavame ukulenza ukuthi bathi, “Smiiiiile!”, Noma “ushizi”, noma yini abayishoyo ukuphoqa abantu ukuthi basho njalo. Lokho mhlawumbe yinto yokugcina engiyifunayo. Noma, lezi zibhamu zingenza izinkumbulo ezinhle ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, imizwa ivame ukumbozwa ngokumamatheka okungamanga noma kwesinye isikhathi ubuso obuyisilima, mhlawumbe nesandla esimboze umlomo noma amehlo.

2. Bamba imizwa yesihloko sakho.

Uma ingane oyithwebulayo isesimweni sokuthula, ethule, thatha lokho. Uma ingane ishaya izindonga, thatha lokho. Uma ingane yakho ikugqolozele, icasukile futhi ayithokozi, thatha lokho. Akudingeki ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi ubeke izifundo zakho endaweni ebunjiwe ngokwesiko efanelekile isithombe - izithombe zihlala zilindele ukwenzeka, vele uzivumele.

 3. Lindela "umzuzwana".

Ukudubula okungahleliwe kuyesabeka. Yizinto ezinhle lezo! Lapho isihloko sakho siwela phansi, sibheka phezulu ngesikhathi esingalindelekile, noma siqhekeka, qiniseka ukusithwebula! Lezo zivame ukuba yizikhathi ezinhle kakhulu, ezithembekile, ezingokomzwelo.

4. Dubula ngemuva "komzuzwana".

Eminye yemisindo engiyithandayo yezingane zami yiyona engiyibambe kahle ngemuva isibhamu abebesilindele. Yilapho lapho beyeka khona lowo moya ababewubambile, bakhulule ukumamatheka okwakungaphoqwa, nesikhathi lapho umzimba wabo uwela esimweni semvelo, sikhululekile.

5. Bheka futhi uthwebule izikhathi eziphakathi kokubukeka.

Singanika izifundo zethu inkomba usuku lonke, kepha kunokuthile okumangazayo ngokuma okungokwemvelo… futhi kwesinye isikhathi lezo zikhathi zitholakala kuphela ezikhathini “eziphakathi”.

Ngakho-ke lindela njalo ukuthutha okulandelayo, ngaphambi kokuba isihloko sakho sifike lapho. Gcina ikhamera yakho esweni lakho bese uqhubeka nokufuna ubuhle bemvelo.

6. “Amehlo” anakho.

Amehlo ayilindi emphefumulweni wethu. Uma umuntu kufanele ahlukanise noma iyiphi ingxenye yomzimba eyodwa ukuveza obala imizwa, ngamehlo. Okomuntu noma isilwane, amehlo ngokuvamile ahlala edlulisa lokho okuzwayo isihloko. Ukugxila okukhulu emehlweni okhozi noma imfudumalo ethambile kulezo zesilwane sakho sasekhaya iLabrador, noma izinkulumo eziningi kakhulu zomdansi we-ballet, amehlo ayisihluthulelo sokubamba imizwa ezwiwa yisihloko. Ishiya eliphakanyisiwe noma ukubukeka okunezinhlangothi kwesinye isikhathi kungasho lokho amagama ayikhulu angakwazi. Ngiyakuthanda ukuthatha izithombe zezingane zami ngoba ziyinqwaba yemizwelo, azikaze zifunde ubuciko bokukokotela, futhi ungabona ngokoqobo "iqiniso emehlweni azo".

7. Bheka imininingwane.

Njengabathwebuli bezithombe, impela siyazi ukuthi imizwa idluliswa ngamehlo nasebusweni. Lowo umthetho. Ngakho phula! Imizwelo ingabuye idluliswe ngezinye izici. Ungalokothi ubukele phansi, amaconsi emjuluko aconsa ebusweni, ukushukuma okwenziwe ngezandla nezinyawo, noma ukuma komgogodla.

Ungazikhawuleli ngokukholelwa kumzwelo kungabanjwa ebusweni kuphela, esikhundleni salokho, zama uhla oluphelele lokuhumusha okungokomzwelo.

Ukuvezwa okuyiqiniso nokwangempela kwemizwa yilokho okwembula umphefumulo womuntu, okuthatha ukuthi esithombeni yilokho okuxoxa indaba yabo futhi kufanele kube yinjongo yabo bonke abathwebuli bezithombe. Akunakuphikwa, imizwa yinhle.

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