Ukuthwebula Izithombe Ezinhle Zezelamani

Ukuthwebula Izithombe Ezinhle Zezelamani

Bengihlala ngicabanga ukuthi ukuthwebula ingane eyodwa kukodwa kulula njengephayi, kepha ukuthi uma ungeza ezinganeni zakwethu, kuba yinkohliso encane. Uma ngithwebula izithombe zakwethu, kumayelana nokukhombisa ukuxhumana phakathi kwabo, futhi nokuzama nokuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu uyazijabulisa kule nqubo. Amaxhama amaningi kubudala nangesimo sezingane, kepha kunjalo noma kunini lapho uthwebula khona izingane.

Uma ubhuka isikhathi sakho noma uma ubonisana ngaphambi kweseshini, njalo qiniseka ukuthi ubuza abazali imibuzo ethile ngezingane zabo - bahlangana kanjani, badlala ndawonye, ​​bazobambana ngezandla, uma ingane isencane - ngabe omncane uzovumela ingane yakubo ukuba imlande - ngokuyisisekelo, noma yimuphi umbuzo ngobudlelwano babo futhi nanoma yini ezosiza ukuthi ingane ikhululeke kakhudlwana nawe. Akufanele neze uzizwe wesaba noma udangele uma ekuqaleni izingane zakini zibonakala zingafuni ukuba ndawonye. Yilapho ubuhlakani bakho buqala khona ukusebenza - yiba yisilima, dlala umdlalo, uthole indawo endaweni yakho abangakwazi ukumelana nayo ukukhuphuka, noma ukuma kuyo, bayeke bachaze amagama ahlekisayo futhi bazijabulise nje futhi baphumule emvelweni. Futhi, izingane zizozwa uma unovalo nazo, ngakho-ke zama ngakho konke okusemandleni akho ukuzizwa ukhululekile ngesikhathi sakho. Njengomama wezingane ezintathu, kusukela eminyakeni eyi-10 kuye kwengu-2, ngikhululekile uma ngiseduze nezingane ngezikhathi zami, ngivame ukubamba izandla ukuwela umgwaqo, noma ukuzicosha ukuze “ngizifake” ezingalweni zikadadewabo ngenhloso yokuma.

Ngoba ngifuna ukubamba isibopho phakathi kwezelamani, ngivame ukuthi izingane zisondelane kakhulu. Lokhu kungaba ngokwemvelo kwezinye izingane zakini, kepha hhayi kwabanye. Kwesinye isikhathi ngiqala ngime, njengokubambana ngezandla, bese ngithi, "munye, babili, bathathu - hug!" - noma enye into ukubenza basondelane. Nginomndeni owodwa empeleni nginomfowethu nodadewethu, esengineminyaka ngiwathwebula izithombe. Manje, empeleni bangibuza ukuthi bangakwazi yini ukulala bodwa. Imvamisa ngizocela ingane yakini endala ukuba ilande omncane - abakwazi ukusiza kepha basondele futhi bazijabulise - kwesinye isikhathi bawe phansi. Iningi lokudubula kwami ​​okuhle kakhulu lapho ngicela izingane ukuba zenze indlela ethile, bese kuthi ngokwemvelo ziphume kuleso pose bese zihleka noma zenze okuthile okuwubuwula. Ngingabacela ukuthi babambe izandla bahambe, bese kuthi ngemuva kwemizuzwana engama-30, ngibatshele ukuthi abagijime! Njengomzali, ufuna ngaphezu kwanoma yini ukubona izingane zakho zijabule ndawonye, ​​yingakho ngizama ukuthatha izikhathi ezizenzekelayo phakathi kwezelamani ezivele zivele nsuku zonke.

Ngezingane ezincane, ezineminyaka emi-4 nangaphansi, imvamisa kunzima ukubahlalisa ndawonye ngaphandle. Ngakho-ke, ngivame ukuzama ukuthola okuthile okuzozinzisa - izitebhisi, isihlalo, uthango. Bangathola indawo ithakazelisa ngokwanele ukuthi bangahlala lapho umzuzu, isikhathi esanele ukuthola ukutholwa kwabo bobabili. Isibonelo, esithombeni sabafana abangamawele olwandle, babehambe ngezindlela ezihlukile ngomzuzu lapho izinyawo zabo zishaya isihlabathi. Lapho nje sibavumele bakhuphuke izitebhisi okwemizuzu embalwa, babezimisele ukuhlala ndawonye - bese bayagonana bahleke futhi babe nesikhathi esimnandi. Kwesinye isikhathi izingane ezincane zidinga inkululeko yokukhipha amandla ngaphambi kokuba zihlale zinganyakazi futhi zithwetshulwe. Izikhathi eziningi, izingane ezincane zidinga amakhefu ukuze zigijime bese-ke, zizobuya zizothola isithombe, ngakho-ke nikela isikhathi salokhu.

Eminye imibono yokugcina izingane zihlangene - zibambe izandla ziphothane, zibeke phansi ndawonye, ​​ngivame ukusebenzisa igama elithi "snuggle" futhi bayakwenza! Ungabacela ukuthi banikezane ukugibela i-piggyback, ukubanga, noma ukubanga, noma ubacele ukuthi bahlebe okuthile ngokuthula kubantwana babo. Bangakwazi ukuqoqana (babone ukuthi ngubani onamandla!), Babe nomntwana omncane olala isisu ngesisu ngaphezulu kwengane yakini endala ukuze babe ngamakhala ekhaleni noma esihlathini esihlathini - kumayelana nokuzijabulisa nokuvumela izingane Kujabulele. Ithiphu elihle, uma izingane zinomqondo wokuthi zifuna ukwenzani, mazizame - kungahle kube yisikhathi esikhethekile.

Ekugcineni, uma uvumela izingane zidlale futhi zijabule, uzokwazi ukuthatha izikhathi ezithile zazo ndawonye. Khululeka futhi ungakhathazeki uma bengabheki ngqo kukhamera - kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi babukane futhi bakhe inkumbulo ezohlala inqobo nje uma isithombe osithwebulayo.

U-Alison Frank Chesney we U-Alison Frank Photography isithombe sokuphila nomthwebuli wezithombe zomshado eSouth Florida. Ukujabulele ukuthumba izikhathi ezinhle zezingane nemindeni kule minyaka eyisikhombisa edlule.