Umhlahlandlela WAMAHHALA WAMAHHALA Wokudubula Imishado Yendawo

Uma wena umthwebuli zithombe zomshado ucabangela ukudubula lapho uya khona, kuningi okufanele ucabange ngakho uma kukhulunywa ngokukhangisa, ukubhuka nokuhambela imishado! Kusukela kokufanele ukupakisha, kokulindelekile - imishado oya kuyo ingaba nzima futhi izuzise kakhulu. Lokhu kungukuthatha kukaKristen Weaver kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe njengomthwebuli wezithombe zomshado oya khona.

Ngazo zonke izinhloso, umshado wami wokuqala engiwudubulile wawungu- umshado wokuya khona. Ngangihlala e-Orlando, futhi omunye wabangane bami abaseduze washada esiQhingini sase-Anna Maria ogwini lolwandle lwaseFlorida. Ngo-Ephreli, ngazizwa sengathi umsebenzi wami usuhambe ngokuphelele, ngidubula umshado womngane wami omkhulu wesikhathi eside eLos Angeles eChayfarer's Chapel edume umhlaba wonke kanye IViceroy Hotel eSanta Monica.

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Eminyakeni emithathu kamuva, ngingene ezinkulungwaneni zamamayela emishadweni, ngiya ezindaweni ezinjengeJamaica, iBahamas, iLos Angeles, iSan Francisco, iLas Vegas, iMinneapolis, neCleveland - futhi nginemishado eza e-Australia, eMexico, eHawaii, eChicago , neConnecticut.

Anginaso isiqiniseko sokuthi yini ekuqaleni engenze ngaba ngumthwebuli zithombe womshado lapho ngiya khona, ngoba empeleni ngiyathanda ukudubula imishado edolobheni langakithi e-Orlando, FL. Kepha ngithande izimanga ebengingazilindele eze nohambo lwami. Okungenani, akufani nalokhu ebengikulindele!

Umshado wami wokuqala lapho ngaya khona wawungo-Okthoba eJamaica. Umakoti wami, umthwebuli wezithombe waseNew Jersey, ungibhukhe engakapheli amahora angama-24 axhumene naye okokuqala. Nginqume ukuletha isinqandamathe sami futhi ngidubule umshado ngemali encane, nakho konke ukuhamba kuhlanganisiwe. Kwakuyisinqumo sebhizinisi ngaleso sikhathi, ngoba ngangifuna ukungena emakethe yomshado yamazwe omhlaba. Ukungasho, umshado wawuseSandals, lapho zonke izindleko zami zazizokhokhwa ngokuphelele.

Ungamaketha Kanjani

Kunezindlela eziningi zokuzimaketha endaweni oya kuyo. Indlela engcono kakhulu ukubhuloga umshado ongafinyelela kuwo (uma uwudubulile). Lokhu kuzoholela omakoti abaningi kuwebhusayithi yakho abafuna ukwenza imicimbi yabo yokuya khona. Ungahlola izinkundla zemishado oya kuyo bese uthumela izeluleko mayelana nokuqasha umthwebuli zithombe. Ungabi ngumuntu o-creeper futhi ubhale ngokusobala ukuthi uzodubula umshado wabo - imizamo yokuthengisa engacelwanga ingakwenza ubukeke ungaphansi kokuhlonishwa. Yiba ngungqondongqondo ekuthatheni izithombe bese usungula ubudlelwano nokuxhumana okuvulekile nalaba makoti. Ungaphelelwa yithemba - ngizwe izindaba ezethusayo zabomakoti behlinzeka “ngezikhangiso zamahhala” kubathwebuli bezithombe bebenzela ukuthi badubule umshado wabo abaya kuwo. Futhi uma ngithi “ukukhangisa kwamahhala” - ngiqonde ukuthi bazogcoba igama lakho kusikibha abasinikeza izivakashi. Akusifanele neze isikhathi sakho sokuthwebula nokuhlela. Enye indlela enhle yokumaketha ukuxhumana nabathengisi bendawo - ikakhulukazi abaxhumanisi - lapho ungathanda ukudubula khona! Thumela ama-imeyili azethule futhi ubazise ukuthi uzimisele ukuphuma emakethe yakho.

Zamanani

Njengoba ngazithola ngithola imibuzo eminingi yomshado yonke indawo kusuka eTurkey naseCaicos kuya eGibhithe, ngaqala ukubandlulula ngokwengeziwe ngamanani ami. Ngokuya ngendawo nokuthi ngizodinga ziphi izindawo zokuhlala, ngathenga intengo ngokufanele. Nquma ukuthi yini enye ofuna ukuyikhokhisa, nokuthi uzoyikhokha kanjani (ngaphambi noma ngemuva kokuhamba) - njengokukhokhiswa kwekhumbi, imali yemithwalo ehlolwe kanye ne-wi-fi ehhotela. Ngiphinde ngaqala ukucabanga ukuthi ngenkathi ngingekho ekhaya, ibhizinisi lami limisiwe ngokoqobo. Lokhu kukodwa kungilahlekiselele izifundo ezibalulekile njengoba ngihlele imali inyanga ngayinye. Kwakungasho nje ukuthi angikwazi ukubhukha engangivame ukukwenza (ngoba isikhathi sami sokuphendula sasihamba kancane ngenkathi ngingekho edolobheni), kepha futhi kwakusho ukuthi ngangingekho kumakhasimende ami amanje uma enesimo esiphuthumayo (noma yini kusuka ngesikhathi -line Ukufuna isithombe ngokushesha). Intengo yaba yinto enkulu lapho ngiqala ukuhamba nomshayeli wesibili / umsizi wami. Ngimboze zonke izindleko zakhe, futhi ngisamkhokhela umholo osethiwe ngenkathi sihamba ngaphezu kwemali yakhe yesibili yokudubula.

Okufanele ukulethe

Ngaphandle nje kwamanani entengo, kuningi kakhulu okufanele ucabange ngakho lapho usohambweni lwemicimbi. Okokuqala, imishini yakho. Imishuwalense efanelekile yezinsiza kanye nezinhlelo zokwenza isipele ziyadingeka. Njengenjwayelo, ngincoma umshuwalense wokuhamba kuyo yonke indiza, kanye nohlelo lokundiza ungene noma uphume ezindaweni. EFlorida, isimo sezulu esibi sivamile (futhi inkathi yesiphepho iyimbi kakhulu), ngakho-ke sihlela ngokufanele, sidinga ukundiza ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuthi sidingeke ukuqinisekisa ukuthi azikho izingqinamba ngezindiza zethu. Kufanele futhi uthathe ukucabangela izikhathi zezindiza, ushintsho lwezoni yesikhathi namandla we-jet-lag ngezindiza eziwela izwe noma izindiza zomhlaba wonke. Ngaso sonke isikhathi qhubeka nemishini yakho (ngisebenzisa eye-ThinkTank eyami), futhi ngibe ne-laptop nawe ongayihlela, uxhumane nayo noma wenze isipele samafayela kuyo. Ngiletha ne-hard drive yangaphandle engingayisebenzisa ukwenza isipele endaweni yesibili kusuka kwi-laptop yami. Uma uhambela amazwe omhlaba, hlala ubheka njalo abaguquli bezitolo nezingxoxo zemali. Uma une-iPad - bheka ezinye izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuhamba ukukusiza ukuthi uzulazule kule ndawo.

Angikwazi ukugcizelela le ngxenye ngokwanele - letha i-suncreen ne-bug spray nomaphi lapho uya khona! Siphatha namaphakethe amancane emithi (i-Pepto, i-Advil, njll.) Futhi njalo zama ukuhlala unamanzi amaningi asemabhodleleni.

Ukuhlola Indawo

Ukuhlola indawo emishadweni oya kuyo kungaba yinselele, kepha futhi kungaba enye yezinto ezinhle kakhulu ekudubuleni ezindaweni ongakaze ube kuzo! Ngiyakukhuthaza ukuthi uzwe indawo okuyo, ukhumbula ukuthi ukukhanyisa ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene zosuku nezinkathi zingahluka kunalokho ojwayele ukukwenza (ngikhathazeke kakhulu ngalokhu lapho ngiya e-Australia ngomshado ngoJanuwari!) Jabula ukubona izinto ezintsha bese uzama ukuletha imininingwane yendawo njengaleyo imininingwane yomshado. Sebenzisa okwasemuva njengolwandle, izintaba, nezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zamasimu nama-cityscapes ukuze ungeze intshisekelo ekuzileni kwakho okujwayelekile. Qiniseka ukuthi uzuza ngokugcwele endaweni ngokusikisela emibhangqwaneni yakho ukuthi unesikhathi esiningi sezithombe. Yini inzuzo yokushutha umshado lapho uya khona uma ubhajwe ehhotela usuku lonke? Qaphela lokhu ikakhulukazi njengoba uhlela umugqa wesikhathi wosuku - endaweni ongayijwayele kufanele ucabangele izinto ezinjengethrafikhi ehlukile, ulinde ama-cab, amabhasi, izitimela ezihamba ngaphansi komhlaba noma i-valet. Isibonelo, ukushayela amamayela ayi-10 kusho izinto ezihluke ngokuphelele e-Ohio (imizuzu eyi-10), e-Orlando (imizuzu engama-30) naseLos Angeles (imizuzu engama-60).

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Izinkontileka Nokulindelwe

Ukuvuma umshado lapho uya khona kungaba yingcindezi uma ungacacisanga ngenkontileka yakho kulowo mbhangqwana. Izintengo zami zihlelwe ngendlela yokuthi ngihlale ngikhona edilini lokuprakthiza (noma ngabe angihlelelwanga ukulishutha) ukuze ngihlangane nomndeni futhi ngazi abadlali ababalulekile bomshado. Ngijwayele ukwenza isethi yamahora ayisishiyagalombili wokuthwebula umcimbi womshado (ngaphezulu uma bengikholisa ngezindawo ezinhle kakhulu esingazithathela izithombe) futhi kwesinye isikhathi sizokwenza iSeshini Emva kweseshini nomakoti nomkhwenyana ukuthola amanye ama-photo-ops. Ngiyasithanda lesi sikhathi ngoba kuyithuba lami lokusebenzisa indawo ukuthola amashothi wokudala engiwadingayo kuwebhusayithi yami. Uma umenywe kweminye imicimbi yomshado ngesikhathi ukhona - cacisa okulindelwe nabo. Kungenzeka ukuthi bakumema ukuba uhlanganyele - kepha kungenzeka nokuthi balindele ukuthi udubule lapho ulapho. Uma ungacaci, ungagcina usebenza okuningi kakhulu kunalokho okuthengiselayo. Akekho ofuna ukuphikisana ngezivumelwano nesikhathi ngenkathi ulapho - ngakho-ke cacisa ngalokhu kusengaphambili.

Ukuxhumana

Ezimweni eziningi, angikaze ngihlangane nomakoti nomkhwenyana, ngakho-ke ngizohlela idina langaphambi komshado lapho sifika ukuze sihlale phansi sixoxe. Ukuxhumana kubalulekile lapho usebenza nomakoti abavela kwesinye isifundazwe (noma izwe), ngakho-ke ngivame ukuthumela ama-imeyili ku-Skype naku-Facebook imibhangqwana yami ukuze bangijwayele (njengoba nje umuntu engangijwayela J). Umshado wami wakamuva kakhulu lapho ngaya khona ubungomunye wezintandokazi zami - ukufunda ukuxhumana nomakoti, umkhwenyana nengxenye yomshado ebiyizithulu, ngenkathi ngisesimweni esisha, iveze izinselele zayo kimi! Ngenhlanhla, ngangichithe isikhathi esiningi ngixoxa online nomakoti wami ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi ngangikwazi ukuxhumana naye kalula ngokunyakaza kwezandla okulula nobudlelwano obabusunguliwe.

Akubona njalo uthingo

Ukungasho ukuthi akukaze kube khona izinyembezi endleleni - ngihlala ngikhumbula umndeni wami, isoka lami nekati lami (yebo, ikati lami), kwesinye isikhathi ngiyabambeka ngaphandle kokuhamba, ngibekwe umzuzu wokugcina (ushintsho -plans) izindawo zokulala, ngithole ukulunywa yizimbungulu (ngalesosikhathi), ukushiswa yilanga okungalungile, ukuphelelwa amandla emzimbeni, futhi kuze kwadingeka ukuthi ngicindezele izinqola zegalofu nazo ZONKE izinto zami zokusebenza phezulu egqumeni ukubuyela egumbini lami; kepha ngihlala ngihlale ngibheke omakoti bami, ngizama ukuletha okuhle kakhulu emshadweni ngamunye! Ziyisikhumbuzo esihlala njalo sokuthi nginenhlanhla engakanani ukulandela amaphupho ami njengomthwebuli zithombe.

Injabulo Engalindelekile

Ingxenye engalindelekile yemishado lapho uya khona ubudlelwano ozoba nabo nomakoti wakho, umkhwenyana nomndeni wabo nabangane. Ngihambile ngaya komunye nomunye wemicimbi engiyiwa kuyo ngesibopho esimangalisa kangaka. Ngakhala ngibuya eVegas, ngafikelwa umkhuhlane lapho umakoti wami waseBahamas egqoka ingubo yakhe, futhi ngihlala ngixhumana nabo bobabili omakoti bami baseJamaica nemindeni yabo! Ukuchitha izinsuku ezi-5 nomndeni womunye umuntu kuzokukwenza noma kukuphule, futhi uzosheshe uthole ukuthi ukudubula umshado lapho uya khona kungokwakho - kodwa ebhizinisini lami, kube ngesinye sezimo ezimangalisa kakhulu!

Ngamafuphi:

• Njalo qhubeka nemishini yakho lapho undiza
• Qiniseka ukuthi izithandani zakho zazi kahle ukuthi uhlelelwe ukuthwebula nini futhi nini. Beka imithetho.
• Qonda imithetho yezindiza, amasiko nemithetho yezokuvakasha ngaphambi kokundiza uphume ezweni! Imigqomo eyakhiwe ngokweqile ingaba mincane futhi izindiza zezindiza zingaba nemikhawulo ehlukile yesisindo esikhwameni.
• Izindleko ezingalindelekile lapho usohambweni zingafaka amatekisi, ukudla, izimali zemithwalo ezihloliwe, i-wi-fi yehhotela (ngokumangazayo AKUFAKELwanga njalo, ngisho nakumahhotela asekelwe ebhizinisini).
• Ngincoma kakhulu ngokuhamba wedwa - letha umsizi noma umdubuli wesibili uma kungenzeka
• Intengo ngokuya ngemodeli yebhizinisi lakho. Uma ufuna ukuhamba, qala ngamaphakeji aphansi okubandakanya konke ukuze uqale ukubhuka, futhi wandise amanani akho kancane kancane ngomuzwa wakho uze ukhokhise ongathanda ukukwenza.
• Uma iklayenti lenza ukubhuka kwakho kokuvakasha, faka inkontileka (bese uxoxa nomakoti) ukuthi kufanele uvume indawo yokuhlala ngaphambi kokuba ibhukwe.
• Fly ungayeki lapho kungenzeka
• Yiba nomshuwalense wokuhamba nemishwalense yemishini ekumboza noma ngabe udubula kuphi
• Indawo yokuhlola ukuthola indawo enhle kakhulu!

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