Samun Farin Ciki: Yadda ake Sakawa yara Smila don kyamarar

Anan akwai wasu nasihu don sa jarirai da yara, harma da uwaye, suyi murmushi yayin zaman daukar ku. A ƙarshe wannan shine duk abin da muke bayan ya ɗauki hotuna daidai? Wancan harbi da gaske, kyakkyawa kuma na gaske, babban murmushi? Samun yara suyi murmushi don kyamarar na iya zama abin birgewa, daga jariri, ƙarami, ko babban yaro. Wasu yara suna jin kunya kuma ba zasu yi murmushi ga cikakken baƙo ba (watau a wurina, mai ɗaukar hoto), amma akwai wasu dabaru waɗanda yawanci suke yi mini aiki. Kuma ee, yi hakuri, ya kunshi kasancewa mara kyau. Idan baku ji daɗin kuzari ba, koyaushe kuna iya tafiya kai tsaye zuwa aya ta 5, inda mummy ta shiga matakin.

1. Da farko na gwada waka. Kullum nakan fara zama don neman waƙoƙin da aka fi so da wasan kwaikwayo na TV, tunda hakan yakan haifar da daɗin tattaunawa da ƙarami. Don haka na gwada waka. Idan ban sami murmushi ba, aƙalla galibi galibi na kan ja hankalin ɗan ƙaramin lokaci na dogon lokaci don in sami kyakkyawan harbe-harbe.

2. Na biyu, nayi wauta. Sauti wauta? Da kyau, ya kamata ka san masu sauraron ka, don haka kawai sauka a ƙasa ka yi wasan kwaikwayon ka. Peekaboo tare da kyamarar, yi sautunan ban dariya, yi kamar ka faɗi a ƙasa, yi ɗan rawa, ko duk abin da zai amfane ka. 3. Kaska. Wannan shine yadda yake aiki. Yaron yana kwance a ƙasa, ina tsaye ana yin harbi kai tsaye. Ina yi wa tumbin ciki cakulkuli sau ɗaya, sannan in miƙe in harba, in maimaita. Wannan yawanci yana yin abin zamba idan ba wani abu ba. (Shin na ambaci na kirga zaman yara a matsayin cikakken motsa jiki na motsa jiki?) Duk da haka, idan yarinya ta kasance mai jin kunya musamman ban yi haka ba, saboda tana iya jin daɗin bakuwar da ta taɓa ta.

4. Dabarar PEZ. Ka sani, injinan Pez wadanda suka zo da nau'ikan nau'ikan haruffa da launuka daban-daban? Ya juya sun dace kusan a cikin takalmin kyamararka. Kuma suna da tasirin gaske don jawo hankalin yaron, aƙalla na ɗan lokaci. Abin da kawai za ku yi shi ne aske ɗan tushe daga kowane gefe.

5. Magana. Gwada yin tambayoyi don samun damar tattaunawa. Ba lallai ba ne a faɗi cewa wannan yana aiki mafi kyau idan yaro zai iya magana… Amma har ma ƙananan ƙananan yara yawanci suna iya amsawa ta wata hanya zuwa tambayoyi masu sauƙi kamar "kuna son Mickey Mouse?" ko "kuna son ice cream?" Kuma idan na tambaye su game da wani abu da suke so, voila, sai murmushi ya zo… Ga manyan yara, idan na sami damar tattaunawa mai kyau, zai iya yin wasu manyan almara na labarai, tare da maganganu daban-daban. 6. Hugging. Idan zaman ya haɗa da yara sama da ɗaya, koyaushe ina ƙoƙarin sa su su runguma ta wata hanya. Rungumewa kusan kullun yana fitar da murmushi mai kyau. 7. Mummy ta shigo fage. A wani lokaci yayin zaman koyaushe na sami mummy ta shiga filin don taimaka min samun murmushi. Bayan haka, Iyaye mata koyaushe suna san yadda ake yiwa jaririnsu murmushi. Wannan hanyar sau da yawa ina samun hotunan murmushi ba tare da yaron yana duban kyamarar ba (tunda tana kallon mummy a bayyane), amma waɗannan hotunan na iya zama da kyau sosai. Wani zaɓin shine a sanya mummy ta tsaya a baya ko dama kusa da ku, kuma a yi ƙoƙarin yin murmushi DA yaron yana kallon kyamara. Wata karamar dabara anan shine yin wani irin sauti daidai bayan mummy ta gama "act" dinta dan murmushi ya kalleta kai tsaye. 8. Suma mummy murmushi! Wannan shine mafi mahimmancin wayo na. Farantawa iyayen rai! Kullum ina bata lokaci ina shirya iyayen kafin zaman, kuma ina tabbatarwa iyayen sun san cewa na san cewa yara masu saurin tafiya na iya yin wayo. Bayan duk samari ba'a yi su don zaune tsaye ba har tsawon awanni da murmushi don kyamarar. Na san hakan! Kuma a matsayina na mai daukar hoton yara aikina ne na rike hakan. Kuma don mafi yawancin, yana aiki sosai. Ko da wani lokacin nakan kawo karshen hoto kamar haka:

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