Amathiphu ama-5 wobuwula bokuthwebula izingane

Amathiphu ama-5 wobuwula bokuthwebula izingane nguTamara Kenyon

Ngibuzwa okuningi ngokuthi yisiphi isihloko okunzima kakhulu ukusithwebula. Imvamisa ngithola abantu baqagele ukuthi yizingane ngoba zimatasa kakhulu futhi kunzima ukuziqondisa. KUNGALUNGILE. Uma sithembekile lapha, empeleni kungamadoda asekhulile, kepha lokho kungenxa yokunye okuthunyelwe.

Izingane ziyisihloko engisithanda kakhulu ngoba zingokoqobo futhi azikho emibhalweni. Kodwa-ke, akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthwebula ngakho ngifuna ukwabelana ngakho amathiphu awusizo lapho uthwebula izingane ukubamba ubuntu babo.

#1 - Thola ukuthembela kwabo.



Izingane ziqaphela kakhulu lapho zihlangana nabantu abasha kunabantu abadala. Abakhululekile ngokushesha futhi kuzovela kanjalo ezithombeni uze uzuze ukwethenjwa.

Lapho ngibhuka iseshini ngibuza abazali ezinye zezintshisekelo zengane yabo ukuze ngibe nomqondo omuhle wokuthi bangobani. Ngizozama futhi ukuthola uhlobo oluthile lomklomelo engizoza nawo ophathelene nezintshisekelo zabo. Ngakho-ke empeleni ngiyabanqoba (ngizama ukungasebenzisi igama elithi ukufumbathisa, kepha liyikho).

Lapho ngiqala ukuhlangana nengane entsha, ngiqala ngokushesha ukuyibuza imibuzo bese ngikhuluma nayo ukuyifudumeza (indlela ngaphambi kokuba ngikhiphe ikhamera).

- Uneminyaka emingaka?
- Uyini umbala wakho owuthandayo?
- Uyazithanda izilwane?
-Yisiphi isilwane osithandayo?

Lezi zinhlobo zemibuzo zivame ukuzifudumeza futhi zibasize baqonde ukuthi ngingumngani wabo hhayi umuntu omdala osabekayo.

Ngenkathi ngishutha, ngizobuza ingane ukuthi ngabe ifuna ukuza izobuka isithombe engisanda kusithatha. Imvamisa bajabula kakhulu ukubona ukuthi ngithathe isithombe sabo bese ngiqala ukwenza okuningi ngemuva kwalokho. Kwesinye isikhathi ngiye ngibayeke bathathe isithombe sabazali babo ngekhamera yami. Kuzwakala kuyingozi kepha imvamisa ikhamera inamathele entanyeni yami futhi ngiyayiphakamisela yona ngenkathi icindezela inkinobho phansi.

#2 - Khohlwa okwendabuko, ukumamatheka njalo, njalo ubheke izithombe zekhamera.

Ngicabanga ukuthi isizathu esiyinhloko esenza abantu bacabange ukuthi ukuthwebula izingane kunzima yingoba banalokhu okulindelwe ezithombeni zengane ebuza kahle futhi ibuka ikhamera. Ungahle ulahle lowo mbono ngefasitela ngoba ngeke kwenzeke.

Ungaphoqeleli ukumamatheka, kudala kuphela ukumamatheka okuyinqaba okungaziwa. Esikhundleni salokho, thwebula izingane endaweni yazo yemvelo. Uma usepaki - bayeke badlale. Letha amathoyizi! Uzomangala ukuthi uzokwazi ukubamba kangakanani ubuntu babo uma ubashiya bodwa.

Kwesinye isikhathi kuyenzeka futhi kuhle uma kwenzeka - vele ungathembeli ngaso sonke isikhathi.

#3 - Dubula ezingeni labo.

Ayikho into esabekayo njengokudubula kwabantu abadala abadala enganeni. Lapho uthatha izithombe zezingane, yehla kubhomu lakho, emadolweni akho, noma esiswini sakho ukuze uthwebule izithombe ezingeni lazo. Kuzophinda futhi kugweme noma yiziphi izilinganiso ezingajwayelekile ezingalengwa ilensi yakho ekubeni sezingeni elihluke kangako.

#4 - Iba nesineke.

Angikwazi ukukugcizelela lokhu ngokwanele. Izingane ziyizingane. Kwesinye isikhathi zizoncibilika futhi kulungile. Banikeze umzuzwana ukuthi baziqambele bona futhi imvamisa kuzodlula ngokushesha okukhulu. Banikeze isikhala. Kwesinye isikhathi bavele basindwe ngamandla badinge ukuphumula.

#5 - Shesha!

Awekho ama-do-overs. Amathuba ukuthi, uma ubungatshela ingane ukuthi “yenza lokho futhi” ukuthi ngeke kwenzeke. Musa ukuletha okokusebenza okuthatha isikhathi esiningi phakathi kwesibhamu. Letha okokusebenza okunakekelwa okuphansi futhi okusheshayo ukuze ukwazi ukushintsha amalensi noma amasethingi ngokushesha.

Sekukonke, ukuthwebula izingane kungaba nomvuzo omkhulu kepha kudinga ukwenza okuningi. Qiniseka ukuthi unethezekile ngezingane futhi uzinika umuzwa omuhle ukuze zizofuna ukuphinda zikwenze futhi. Ngizizwa ngiyingxenye yomndeni enamakhasimende ami amaningi ngoba ngifunde ukubazi kahle izingane nemindeni yazo.

Ngikufisela inhlanhla!

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